ʻOi aku ma mua o 60 mau wehewehe o ka ʻike ʻana i ke apo kālā ma ka moeʻuhane e Ibn Sirin

 

ʻO ke apo kekahi o nā hōʻailona i ʻike nui ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane a ʻike ʻia e nā mea moeʻuhane a pau i kā lākou mau ʻano nohona like ʻole, a ma o kēia ʻatikala, a mākou e hōʻike aku ai iā ʻoe ma kahi pūnaewele kūikawā o ʻAigupita, e ʻike ʻoe i nā wehewehe kaulana loa. i haʻi ʻia e Ibn Sirin, Al-Nabulsi a me nā mea ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ke ʻano o ke apo kālā ma ka moeʻuhane; E hahai i kēia mau paukū e ʻike i ke ʻano o kā lākou moeʻuhane ma ke ala maʻalahi a maʻalahi.  

apo kala ma ka moeuhane

• He aha ka wehewehe o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo kālā ma ka moeʻuhane? He nui na kane a me na wahine opio i ninau ia keia ninau, a me na kane a me na wahine mare, a ke makemake nei lakou i ka pane maopopo, a ua nui na lunakanawai i pane mai, a na makou e hoike aku i ehiku mau wehewehena o keia moeuhane ma o keia.

ka mua: ʻO ka hōʻailona o ke apo kālā i loko o ka moeʻuhane o kahi kanaka kālepa a i ʻole kekahi kanaka e hana ana i nā wahi o ke kālepa, kūʻai a kūʻai aku he mea hoʻohiki maikaʻi loa ia, a ʻo ia hoʻi, e ulu aʻe kāna mau hana āpau i kēia manawa - makemake ke Akua - a e loaʻa kēia pōmaikaʻi i ʻekolu maikaʻi. hopena:

• ʻAmelike: E nanea ana i ka ono o ka holomua a me ka manao ua leialii ia ka hana a ke Akua i ka maikai a me ka waiwai.
• ka luaHoʻopiha ʻia ka puʻuwai o ka mea moeʻuhane me ka ikaika maikaʻi a me ka hoihoi e hoʻopau i kāna ʻoihana a me kāna ʻoihana ʻoihana ma ka laulā.
• ke koluʻO ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka wiwo ʻole a me ka wiwo ʻole i ka hana a me ka makaʻu ʻole i ka lawe ʻana i nā pilikia a me ke komo ʻana i nā ʻoihana ʻoihana ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o nā mea ma mua i mea e loaʻa ai ka waiwai kiʻekiʻe, me ka ʻike ʻana he pono ke aʻo pono ʻia ka pilikia i ʻōlelo ʻia ma mua o ka ʻoihana i ʻole e nalowale a mihi ma hope. .

ʻO ka lua: ʻO kahi limahana e moeʻuhane ana e komo ana ʻo ia i ke apo i hana ʻia i ke kālā, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā loaʻa kahi pōhaku makamae! Hōʻike ka hihiʻo i kāna kūlana hana hanohano e noho koke nei, a e ukali ʻia kēia kūlana e ka piʻi ʻana o kona pae kālā a me ka pilikanaka, ʻaʻohe mea kānalua ʻo ka nele o ke kālā ke kumu pinepine o ka pōʻino o ke ola o nā kānaka, a No laila, e hoʻonui ʻia me ka mea moeʻuhane e ola ʻo ia me ka leʻaleʻa me kona ʻohana a me kāna mau keiki no ka mea e loaʻa ana kā lākou koi a nui.  

Ke kolu: E hoike mai ana ke apo kala i na manawa hauoli e hiki mai ana ma ke ola o ka Makaula, a he nui na kumu hoohalike o keia mau manawa, malia paha e mare kekahi keiki a ka mea moeuhane, a e oi aku paha kekahi o lakou ma kana ao ana, a loaa ke kulana mua. i waena o kona mau hoa ma ke kula a kulanui paha.

Malia paha ʻo ka hihiʻo ka hoʻopakele ʻana i kekahi lālā o ka ʻohana o ka mea moeʻuhane mai kahi hoʻokolokolo a pilikia paha, a na kēia mea e hauʻoli ai nā mea a pau, a ʻo ka manawa hauʻoli e hele ai ka mea moeʻuhane ʻo ia paha kāna male ʻana a i ʻole ka male ʻana o kekahi o kona mau kaikuahine.

ka ha: Hiki i ke kanaka ke ʻike ma ka moeʻuhane i ka nui o nā apo kālā, ʻoiai he hōʻailona kēia e hoʻololi ʻia kona ola ma ka hōʻea ʻana mai o ka nui o nā kūleʻa ma muli o ka haʻalele ʻana o kāna laki pōʻino i kona ola, a e hoʻokipa koke ʻo ia. Laki maikaʻi e hiki mai ana iā ia me nā hanana like ʻole a me nā ola ola.

Ka lima: Ua hoike mai ka poe unuhi olelo, o ke apo kala, he mea ia i ka lanakila ana o ka mea moeuhane maluna o ka poe inaina ia ia, a e lanakila oia maluna o kona mau pilikia pilikia, a lanakila ikaika, ina he mau hoa paio kana ma kana hana, e lanakila no oia ia lakou a pau, he mau enemi kona iwaena o kona ohana a i ole ia, alaila, e hoike mai ke Akua ia ia i ka lakou hana maalea, i hiki ai iaia ke pale aku ia lakou, a haule lakou iloko o ia mea.

VI: ʻO kekahi o nā hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole o kēia hihiʻo, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana o ka mea moeʻuhane iā ia e kū ana ma kahi wahi, a kūʻai aku i nā apo kala a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea waiwai ʻē aʻe i hana ʻia me ka metala like, ʻoiai he hōʻailona kēia o kona ʻilihune a me nā hewa he nui āna e hana ai ma ka e hiki mai ana.

Ka hiku: Hiki ke unuhi ʻia ke kālā ma ka moeʻuhane e like me ke kaulana e hiki mai ana i ka mea nona ka moeʻuhane, a he kikoʻī kēia wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i ke kanaka i hele mai i ona lā ma ka moeʻuhane a hāʻawi iā ia i ke apo kālā a i ʻole kekahi ʻāpana i hana ʻole ʻia e like me nā alloys.

• ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ke apo kālā maoli ʻole i loko o ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia hoʻi, he hoʻopunipuni, ʻaʻole i hana ʻia me ka metala hoʻokahi, he hōʻailona o ka wahaheʻe a ka mea moeʻuhane a me kāna hahai ʻana i nā hana maalea a me nā ʻano kekee i kāna hana ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

He aha ke ano o ka moeuhane, he apo kala no ke kanaka?

• ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo kālā kāne, ʻekolu manaʻo o ka poʻe loio

ka mua: ʻO keʻano ikaika o ka mea moeʻuhane a me kona wiwoʻole i ka loaʻaʻana o kāna kuleana mai ka poʻe hanaʻino a me kona ikaika i ka hakakāʻana me nā mea'ē aʻe me ka wiwoʻole a me ka ikaika loa.

ʻO ka lua: Inā ʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi i ke apo kala o nā kāne i kau ʻia ma kekahi o kona manamana lima; ʻO ke ʻano o ka moeʻuhane ʻo ia ka male koke ʻana.

Ke kolu: ʻO kahi kanaka ʻōpio e moeʻuhane ana e komo ana ʻo ia i ke apo kala, ʻo kāna ʻike ʻana e hōʻike ana ua kokoke ʻo ia e komo i kahi moʻolelo aloha hou e kūleʻa a hanohano nona, a ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻolaha ai i ka hauʻoli i loko o kona puʻuwai a e manaʻo ai ʻo ia ka palekana a hale paʻa.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane, he apo kala no ke kāne male

ʻO kēlā moeʻuhane i loko o ka moeʻuhane o ke kāne male, he hōʻailona ia e pili ana i kahi ʻoihana hou āna e alualu ai, a ua hoʻomaopopo ka poʻe unuhi ʻōlelo ʻaʻole i maʻa mau kēia ʻoihana e like me nā ʻoihana ʻē aʻe e ola ai ke kanaka, akā, ʻo ia nō. ʻo ia kekahi o nā ʻoihana hanohano loa ma ka mokuʻāina, a no laila he hōʻailona hoʻohiki kēia.

Akā, ua ʻōlelo pū nā luna e ola ʻo ia i kahi lewa piha i nā kuleana hana kaumaha i mea e hōʻoia ai i kona pono ke kūpono ʻo ia i kēlā kūlana, a no laila pono ʻo ia, me ka makaʻala, e hana i ka mea maikaʻi loa e mālama i ka makana a ke Akua e hāʻawi koke mai ai iā ia. a me ka manaʻolana e hoʻomohala a makemake i kahi kūlana ʻoi aʻe a ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ia.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo kālā no nā wahine hoʻokahi

• ʻO ke apo kālā i loko o ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hoʻokahi he hōʻailona ia o kāna male ʻana i kahi kāne maikaʻi, akā ma ke ʻano ʻaʻole ʻeleʻele a ʻano ʻē paha ke apo, a makemake ʻo ia e wehe iā ia mai kona lima aku. ʻAʻole maikaʻi kēia mau hōʻailona mua, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi iā ia e mahalo i kēia apo a palekana i ka ʻike.
• ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ke apo kālā no nā wahine hoʻokahi e hōʻike i kahi hōʻailona mamao loa, ʻo ia hoʻi e maikaʻi a hoʻolohe kāna mau keiki i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
• ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo kālā no ke kaikamahine e hōʻike ana i ke ʻano o kāna kāne i ka wā e hiki mai ana. , no laila e loaʻa iā ia nā kūlana kiʻekiʻe a nui kāna kālā a hiki ke hoʻokaʻawale ʻia ʻo ia i waena o ka poʻe waiwai i ke ola ala, a ʻo ia hoʻi he kanaka nona ka ikaika kino a pilikino.
• Inā moe ka wahine hoʻokahi ua komo ʻo ia i ke apo kala, akā ua nalowale ia iā ia, a laila he hōʻailona kēia i ʻike ʻo ia i nā ʻano ʻino he nui i loko o kāna ipo a i hoʻopaʻa ʻia paha. ina ua mare ia me ka mare maoli ole, no ka mea, he hoailona keia o kona hemo koke.
• ʻO ka hōʻailona kālā ma ka moeʻuhane o ka wahine hoʻokahi he hōʻailona ia o kona hoʻolohe ʻana i kona mau mākua, a ua ʻōlelo kekahi o nā unuhi ʻōlelo he hōʻailona kēia e hele koke ai i ka Hale Hemolele o ke Akua.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo kālā no nā kāne hoʻokahi

• Inā ʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi i ke apo kālā kāne ma kāna moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona kēia e loaʻa iā ia kahi hana hou, a ʻoi aku ka nani o ke apo, ʻoi aku ka ʻoluʻolu o ka hana a lawa kāna uku no kāna mau ala ala. .
• Ua ʻōlelo kekahi o nā unuhi ʻōlelo ʻo kēia hihiʻo e hōʻike ana i ka haʻaheo e hōʻike ana i ka wahine hihiʻo, a ʻaʻohe mea kānalua ʻo ka manaʻo ponoʻī a me ka haʻaheo he mau ʻano mahalo i waena o nā wahine, a me nā kānaka ma ke ʻano nui.

He aha ka wehewehe o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke komo ʻana i ke apo kala no nā wahine hoʻokahi?

• ʻO ke komo ʻana i ke apo kālā i loko o ka moeʻuhane no nā wahine hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana ua kokoke ʻo ia e komo i nā pilina pili hou, a e kūleʻa a hoʻohua hoʻi iā ia, a ʻoiai ʻo ka huaʻōlelo (ka pilina pili) he laulā a me nā hana he nui. e wehewehe ia mea ma keia mau lalani.

pili oihana: ʻO ka mea moeʻuhane e komo i kahiʻoihana i manaʻoʻia me kekahi poʻe iʻike i ke kumu o ka holomua o nā papahana kālepa, a e hui pū lākou e hoʻokumu i kahiʻoihana hoʻokomo ikaika, aʻo nā mea a pau eʻohi i ka nui o ka waiwai mai kēiaʻoihana. , me ka Makaula.

Hoalohaloha: Malia paha e launa pū ka mea ʻike maka i ka heluna nui o nā hoaaloha pono a koho pono iā lākou, no ka mea, he kuleana nui ka hoa pōmaikaʻi i ka hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻana i ka pae pilikino, ʻoihana a waiwai o kāna hoaaloha.

pili ʻohana: Inā hoʻopiʻi ʻo ia no ka nui o nā hakakā ʻohana i loko o kona ola, a laila hiki koke iā ia ke hoʻokumu i nā pilina ʻohana kūleʻa me nā lālā a pau o kona ʻohana, mai kona makuakāne a me kona makuahine a i kona mau kaikuahine a me ke koena o ka ʻohana, me nā hoahānau. makua kāne, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe.

nā pili pili pili kino: He nui nā kaikamahine e hoʻopiʻi i ko lākou hemahema me ka manaʻo, a inā ʻo ka mea moeʻuhane kekahi o lākou, a laila e komo koke ʻo ia i kahi pilina ikaika a kūleʻa a hoʻomau i loko, ke ʻae ke Akua.

He mea pono ke hoomaopopoia he nui ka pomaikai o keia moeuhane, no ka mea, ua makau kela a me keia kaikamahine e komo iloko o ke ao o na aelike kalepa, nolaila, e komo oia me ka wiwo ole, no ka mea, ua hoike mai ka moeuhane i kona pomaikai nui e hiki ai iaia ke loaa, ina paha oia. hōʻole ʻo ia e pili pū me ia i ʻole ʻo ia e hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻia e kekahi kanaka ʻōpio a i ʻole e haʻalele i ka pilina me kahi ʻeha ʻeha, no laila ʻo ka moeʻuhane ʻo ia e haʻi aku iā ia e ʻokoʻa ka mea e hele koke mai ana iā ia mai nā mea ma mua, a e noho hauʻoli ʻo ia me ia.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo kālā no ka wahine male

• ʻO ke apo kālā i loko o ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine male i unuhi ʻia me nā manaʻo ʻeono, a penei lākou:

Ka mua: Inā noho pilikia ka mea moeʻuhane, a laila, ʻo ke ʻano o ke apo kālā i loko o kāna moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona ia o ka nui o ke kālā, e hele mai ʻo ia mai kāna hana a i ʻole ka hana a kāna kāne, a e lawe paha ʻo ia i ke kōkua kālā mai kekahi o kona ʻohana. .

ka lua: Inā he wahine ka mea moeʻuhane i mare lōʻihi a makemake nui e hāpai, a laila, ʻo ke apo kālā i ka hihiʻo o kekahi wahine paʻa ʻole, ʻo ia ka mea e hāpai ʻo ia a ʻo ka hānau mua o kāna keiki he kāne. a o ke Akua ka mea i ike.

Ke kolu: He hōʻailona kēia ʻike no ka nui o nā keiki a ka mea moeʻuhane e loaʻa i kona ola a pau.

Ka ʻehā: He koi nui a makemake paha ka mea moeʻuhane e hoʻokō i ka wā e ala ai, a ʻo kāna ʻike ʻana i ke apo kālā i loko o kāna moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia e hoʻokō ʻia kēia koi ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, a e like me nā pahuhopu o ka mea moeʻuhane i ke ala ʻana. e wehewehe pono ʻia ka moe.

Ma ke ano, ina e makemake oia e hana ma ka oihana hanohano, alaila, na ke Akua no e kokua ia ia a hiki i keia oihana, a e lilo ana oia i kekahi o kana mau limahana, a ina e makemake ana oia i ka noho oluolu ana me kana kane, alaila, e loaa ia ia ka mea e pono ai. i makemake a e mahuahua koke ke aloha a me ke aloha me kona hoa ola, ina paha o ka noi ana i makemake ai mai ke Akua mai, oia kona ola ana mai ka mai, e loli koke ana kona ola, a e maikai ana kona kino.

Ka lima: Ina e moeuhane ka wahine mare i kekahi apana kala, ina paha he apo, apo pepeiao, kupee paha, aole nae i loaa, alaila, kaumaha loa keia hiona, a o ia hoi, e halawai ana me na kanaka kokoke loa ia ia. .Malia paha e kahaha ana oia i ka kumakaia ana o kona hoa iaia, a i ole ia, e ike ana paha oia i ka mea ana i inaina loa ai, o kana aikane.

ʻAʻole hiki i kēia mau ʻeha ke hele i ke kanaka me ka ʻole o ka naʻau ma muli o ia mau lā a me nā lā piha i ka pōʻino, akā inā lākou e kūpaʻa i kēia mau mea hoʻohaʻahaʻa, e hoʻi hou ana lākou ma mua o ko lākou mua, a ʻaʻole pono lākou e hilinaʻi i kekahi kanaka ma hope o ke ʻano maoli, no ka mea. ʻO ka hilinaʻi loa ka pono o ke Akua, ʻaʻole ka pono o ke kanaka.

ʻeono: Inā moeʻuhane ʻo ia ua kūʻai aku ʻo ia i kāna apo ma ka moeʻuhane, a kūʻai mai i ke apo kālā a i ʻole ke apo no ke kūʻai ʻana aku, a laila, he hōʻailona kēia no kona hemo koke ʻana, a ʻo kēia wehewehe ʻana e pili pono i nā wahine i ka hakakā a hakakā me. ka lakou mau kane i ke ala ana.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo kālā no ka wahine hāpai?

• ʻO ke apo kālā i loko o ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hāpai e hōʻike paha e hānau ʻo ia i kahi keikikāne inā ʻike ʻo ia he ʻano kāne kēia apo, ʻaʻole ka wahine.
• ʻO ke apo kālā no ka wahine hāpai i ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka hoʻonui ʻana i kāna kālā a me ka hoʻonui ʻana i kāna waiwai inā ʻo ia kekahi o nā lede me ka waiwai i ke ola ala, me ka ʻike ʻana i ke kālā e hiki mai ana iā ia e kū i ke kānāwai, maikaʻi a pōmaikaʻi.
• Inā ʻike ka wahine hāpai i kahi ʻāpana kālā nahā, a laila ʻino kēia moeʻuhane, ʻike paha ʻo ia i ke apo nahā, ke kūpeʻe lima, a i ʻole ka lei naha, ua inaina ʻia kēia mau hōʻailona a pau e ka poʻe unuhi ʻōlelo, a ua ʻōlelo lākou ua ola ʻo ia. i waena o ka poʻe hoʻopunipuni a ʻaʻole ʻoiaʻiʻo ko lākou manaʻo.

E hāʻule pū ana ʻo ia i loko o ka pilikia ma muli o kēia hoʻopunipuni a me ka hoʻopunipuni e hoʻopilikia nei iā ia mai nā ʻaoʻao a pau, a no laila ʻo ka mea e koi ʻia iā ia ma ka makaʻala, ʻo ia ka pule i ke Akua e hoʻomālamalama i kona ʻike a e hoʻokaʻawale iā ia mai kēia mau hana maʻalea.

• Ua hōʻike kekahi o nā mea unuhi i ke apo ma ka moeʻuhane o ka wahine he mau wehewehe, ʻo ia hoʻi:

ka mua: Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Al-Nabulsi inā ʻike ka wahine he apo ma kona lima, he mea hoʻohālikelike kēia no kāna male hauʻoli.

ʻO ka lua: ʻOi aku ka nani a me ka ʻālohilohi o ke apo kala, ʻoi aku ka hoihoi o ka mea moeʻuhane i kāna hoʻomana i ka wā e ala ana a ʻaʻole hoʻi e haʻalele i kahi mea maʻalahi mai nā aʻo ʻana a ke Akua a me ka Sunnah o kāna ʻElele.

Ke kolu: Hiki i nā wāhine makemake i ka hōʻike a hōʻikeʻike ke moeʻuhane i nā apo, inā he gula, kālā a he daimana paha.

ka ha: Inā nalowale ke apo o ka mea moeʻuhane i loko o kāna moeʻuhane, a laila he hōʻailona kēia ʻaʻole ia e komo i kahi manawa hana nui, a inā ʻo ia kekahi o nā wahine e noʻonoʻo ʻole i ka hana a makemake e noho ma ka home, a laila hiki i ka hihiʻo. e hōʻike ana e nalowale ana kekahi mea nui iā ia.

A ina i kuai oia i apo ma kana moeuhane, manao iho la oia he mea oiaio, aka, ua ike ia he hoopunipuni, alaila, ike aku la ia he hoailona ia o ka hookamani a me ka hookamani; ʻO ia hoʻi, e hana ʻo ia me ke kanaka hoʻokamani, a i ʻole ʻo ia ke ʻano hoʻokamani i makemake i ka hoʻopunipuni a me ka hoʻopunipuni a makemake ʻole i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i ke ala ʻana.

ʻO kahi pūnaewele kūikawā no ʻAigupita kahi hui o nā unuhi unuhi kiʻekiʻe o nā moeʻuhane a me nā hihiʻo ma ka honua Arab.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke komo ʻana i ke apo kala

• ʻO ke koʻikoʻi o ke komo ʻana i ke apo kālā i loko o ka moeʻuhane he mea mahalo ʻia, a ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻo ka mea moeʻuhane kekahi o nā ʻano pilikino e makemake e hoʻomau i ka hoʻokō ʻana i ka pahuhopu a ʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻopau i nā kūlana koʻikoʻi, akā hana i nā hoʻolālā he nui e pono ai no ka kūleʻa. inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻokō i kekahi o ia mau mea, e hoʻāʻo ʻo ia i kekahi, a ʻoiaʻiʻo e kūleʻa ʻo ia e like me ka lōʻihi o ke apo i loko o ka moeʻuhane.
• ʻO kēia hiʻohiʻona e pili ana i nā kuleana e hiki koke mai ana i ka mea moeʻuhane ke kuleana. ʻo ka mea ʻē aʻe e maikaʻi lākou a hiki i ka mea ʻike ke hoʻokō piha iā lākou.

Eia kekahi laʻana, i ka wā e hānau ai ka wahine i ke keiki, liloʻo ia i kuleana nona, a me ka nui o nā kaumaha o ka makuahine, e hauʻoliʻo ia me ia, a pēlā nō ināʻaʻole ka mea moeʻuhane i hanaʻole a lilo i kuleana no ka hana nui i loko. e ala ana i ke ola, a he mea kanalua ole ina ua hoihoi ka mea moeuhane i ka hana manawalea, e noho paha oia i ke kulana nui Ma ka hana manawalea lawelawe, a oia ke ano o kona hihio.

No laila, ua ʻōlelo ka poʻe unuhi ʻōlelo ua wehewehe ʻia ka hihiʻo e like me ke kūlana o ka mea nona ke ala, a mai ʻaneʻi e ʻike ai mākou i kahi mea pōʻino i loko o ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia hoʻi ʻaʻohe wehewehe lokahi no kēlā me kēia kanaka a paʻa paha i nā hihia āpau, a ʻo kēia mea. hana i na moeuhane he nui i loko o ke kūlana o ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo nui no ka mea hiki i ka mea moeʻuhane ke ʻike i kahi hōʻailona i loaʻa Ua unuhi ʻia i loko o nā puke o ka wehewehe ʻana he ʻino, a ma ka moeʻuhane o kekahi e wehewehe ʻia he maikaʻi, a pēlā aku.

• Akā inā wehe ke kanaka i ke apo kālā mai kona manamana lima a kūʻai aku ma ka hihiʻo, he hōʻailona kēia e haʻalele ʻo ia i kāna mau kuleana a me kāna mau kuleana a pau no kona ʻohana a waiho iā lākou e alo i ka lehulehu.
• Ina e komo ke kanaka i ke komolima hoopunipuni i kona hiamoe ana, a wehe ae la a hele i ka halekuai kuai gula a me ke kala, a kuai lilo aku, alaila, he hoailona keia e lawe ana oia i ke kala hewa, e like me ka olelo a ka poe loio, loaʻa i kahi kīpē mai kahi mea kūʻai aku i mea e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ai i kekahi o kāna mau hana ʻoihana kolohe.
• ʻO kekahi o nā hihiʻo i kānalua ai ka poʻe moeʻuhane, ʻo ia ke komo ʻana i ke apo i loko o ka moeʻuhane a ʻike i ke sila ma ke apo, a ʻōlelo ka poʻe unuhi ʻōlelo he hōʻike ia i ka hopena, ʻaʻole mākou e manaʻo ma ka hopena e make ka mea moeʻuhane! He hōʻailona wale nō paha ia i ka hopena o ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kahi kūlana kikoʻī a i ʻole ka hoʻoholo hope loa me ka hoʻi ʻole ʻana i hope, a ʻo ia paha ka hopena o ka luhi a me ka ʻeha i noho ai ka mea moeʻuhane no ka manawa lōʻihi, a ʻo ia ka manawa e hoʻomaha ai a kūleʻa. .
• Ua ʻōlelo nā luna, inā ʻike ka mea moeʻuhane ua ʻaʻahu ʻo ia i ʻelua mau apo kālā, a laila ua maikaʻi ka hihiʻo a hōʻike ʻia ua paʻa ʻo ia i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ʻelua mau hana hoʻopukapuka kālā a i ʻole e kūleʻa i nā mea ʻelua ma kāna hana a me ka hoʻokele ʻana o kona home.
• Ina o ka nui o na apo a ka mea moeuhane i komo ai ma kona hihio, ekolu apo; He hoailona keia o na hoailona ekolu, a penei.

Ka mua: Malia paha e hana ana ka Makaula ma na hana ekolu, a he mea ia e hooikaika nui ai iaia, aka, e loaa ia ia ke ola nui mai ia lakou a pau.

ka lua: Hiki i ka hihiʻo ke hōʻike i ka nui o nā keiki a ka Makaula i ka wā e hiki mai ana.

Ke kolu: Inā ʻike ka mea moeʻuhane, hōʻike paha ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻoholo i kona ola ʻana e mare i hoʻokahi wahine, akā, e mare ʻo ia i nā wahine ʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi wahine, a malia paha e hiki aku ko lākou heluna wahine i ʻekolu, e like me kāna komo ʻana i ʻekolu apo ma kāna hihiʻo. .

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke komo ʻana i ke apo kālā ma ka lima hema

• Hōʻike kēia hihiʻo i ʻekolu hōʻailona, ​​​​a ʻo ia ka mea

Ka mua: E kahaha koke ana ka Makaula i ke dala e hiki mai ana iaia mai kahi kumu mai ana i manao ole ai, a ua olelo mai ka poe Jure e loaa iaia ka waiwai iloko o ka manawa uuku loa.

ka lua: ʻO kēia hihiʻo no kēlā me kēia moeʻuhane i manaʻo ua nalowale kona hilinaʻi iā ia iho, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻopau i kona alahele, ʻoiai e hōʻike ana ia e loaʻa hou ana kona hilinaʻi iā ia iho, a e lilo ana kona ikaika maikaʻi ʻole i mea maikaʻi, e mākaukau e hoʻokō koke i kāna mau hana a me kāna mau pahuhopu.

Ke kolu: No ka mea, ua ʻike ʻia ua kau ʻia ke apo mare a i ʻole ke kāʻei ma ka ʻaoʻao hema, a laila ʻo ka hihiʻo ke manaʻo e mare koke nā bachelor.

He aha ka wehewehe o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kūʻai ʻana i ke apo kala?

• He manaʻo ʻē aʻe ko Miller e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i nā mea nani kālā ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻoiai ua hōʻoia ʻo ia e hōʻike ana i ka hopohopo a me ke kaumaha, a ua hōʻike ʻo ia ʻo ke kālā ma ka moeʻuhane kekahi o nā hōʻailona e pono ai ka mea moeʻuhane e noʻonoʻo. ʻo ia kona makemake nui i nā mea waiwai a me nā ala e loaʻa ai i mea e loaʻa ai iā ia ka hauʻoli i kona ola.

He mea pono e hoʻomaopopo i ka makemake nui i ke kālā e alakaʻi i ka mea moeʻuhane i ka hewa a hahai i nā makemake, a no laila ʻo ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ka hopena, a pono hoʻi e ʻike ʻo ia ʻaʻole i ke kālā wale nō ka hauʻoli, akā i ka ʻoluʻolu o ke Akua, ka pono. i na makua, kokua ia hai a me na mea e ae.

• Inā kūʻai ka mea moeʻuhane i ke apo kālā me kahi lobe koʻikoʻi, a laila hōʻike ka hihiʻo i ka nui o ke kālā, a inā ʻike ke kanaka ʻōpio, e hōʻike paha ia he mea hoʻohiwahiwa kāna wahine.
• Inā he kiʻi koʻikoʻi ko ke apo, a laila he hōʻailona kēia e hoʻokō koke ʻia nā manaʻo a me nā iini.
• ʻO kekahi o nā manaʻo koʻikoʻi a Ibn Sirin i hoʻokomo ai i ka unuhi ʻana i ke apo kala, ʻo ia ka mea e kūʻai koke aku ai ka mea ʻike i nā waiwai waiwai e like me ka waiwai paʻa a i ʻole ke kaʻa makamae, a me nā mea nani paha.
• Inā ʻike ka mea moeʻuhane ua nalowale a ua hāʻule paha ka lobe o ke apo āna i komo ai, a laila, he hōʻailona kēia o ka maʻi, a ʻo ia paha ka nalowale a ʻaihue paha kekahi hapa o kāna kālā, a ʻo ke Akua ka mea ʻoi loa.
• Inā wehe ke kanaka i kāna apo kālā mai kekahi o kona manamana lima ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona kēia e haʻalele ʻo ia i kāna hana a i ʻole e hoʻokuʻu koke ʻia mai ia.
• Ināʻike ke kanaka i loko o kāna moeʻuhane heʻelua lobes kāna apo kālā, a laila he hōʻailona kēia e hana anaʻo ia ma nāʻoihanaʻelua a iʻole e hauʻoli i kahi kūlana kiʻekiʻe iʻikeʻia e nā kānaka a me kahi kūlana'ē aʻe āna i hūnā ai mai ko lākou mau maka no nā kumu e pili ana iā ia.
• Inā ʻaʻahu ka mea moeʻuhane i ke apo i loko o ka moeʻuhane, a ʻike ʻo ia i ke apo ma kona manamana lima, a laila mahalo ʻia kēia hihiʻo a hōʻike i ka maʻalahi ma hope o ka pilikia.
• Inā ʻike ke kanaka i ka ua ʻana o ka lani i nā apo he nui ma mua o ka ua ma ka moeʻuhane, a laila hōʻike kēia hihiʻo e hānau ʻo ia i nā kāne he nui.
• Inā kūʻai ke kanaka i ke apo kala, a he lobe aquamarine kona, a laila ua hōʻoia ka hihiʻo he kanaka ke kuleana no nā hana he nui, a ʻo ia kuleana ke hopena mai kona kūlana kiʻekiʻe ma ka mokuʻāina, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka lobe mālamalama i ka moeʻuhane. ma mua o ka lobe i uhi ʻia me ka lepo, a no ka poʻe i ʻike ʻole i ka aquamarine? He ʻano makamae ia o nā ʻano pōhaku makamae.
• Inā kūʻai ke kanaka i ke apo i hoʻonani ʻia me ka lobe sapphire o kahi kala ʻōmaʻomaʻo ʻoliʻoli, a laila he ʻōlelo hoʻohālike kēia no ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi keikikāne me nā mana noʻonoʻo maikaʻi loa, ʻo ia hoʻi e ʻike ʻia ʻo ia i waena o nā poʻe no kona kiʻekiʻe o ka naʻauao a me ka hiki ke kupaianaha. hana ma na mea.
• Akā, inā kūʻai ʻo ia i apo kālā, a he lobe kona i hana ʻia me nā lei makamae, a laila he hōʻailona kēia no ka nāwaliwali o ka mea ʻike a palupalu kona ʻano.
• Inā ʻike ka mea moeʻuhane i kekahi mea nāna i kūʻai aku i ke apo kala a hāʻawi aku iā ia i makana ma ka moeʻuhane, a laila he hōʻailona kēia o ka ikaika o ka pilina ma waena ona a me kēia kanaka, a i ʻole ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pilina kuauhau e hiki ai. e hui koke mai.

I ka ʻike ʻana i ka poʻe make e hāʻawi i ke apo kala

Hōʻike kēia moeʻuhane i ʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi hōʻailona maikaʻi:

Ka mua: E hauʻoli ka mea ʻike i ke kūlana kino a me ka noʻonoʻo ikaika a ola ʻo ia me ka leʻaleʻa i ka wā e hiki mai ana.

ka lua: E hoʻokuʻu ʻia kona ʻehaʻeha a e uku ʻia kāna mau aie, ke ʻae ke Akua.

Ke kolu: E ulu ana kāna mau kūlana no ka maikaʻi, inā ma kāna ʻoihana a i kāna pilina pili kanaka.

Ka ʻehā: ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana paha i ka mea make i ke apo i ka mea ola ma ka moeʻuhane ʻo ia ka pono e hoʻomākaukau koke i ka mea moeʻuhane e noho i kahi kūlana a haʻalele paha i kāna hana luhi a hoʻomaka i kahi hana ʻoi aku ka ʻoluʻolu ma mua o ka wā ma mua.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke apo kala

• ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka mea moeʻuhane i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke apo kālā ma kāna moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana e hōʻike koke ʻo ia i kāna mau taleni. kanaka ma ke ala ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, a ʻo ia ka mea e hāʻawi iā ia i ka manawa nui o ka holomua a me ka hoʻokō ʻana i kona mau manaʻo ponoʻī.
• Inā he ʻino a ʻeleʻele paha kēia apo, a laila ʻino ka hihiʻo i kēlā manawa, a ʻo ia hoʻi, he kanaka hana ʻole ka Makaula, a ʻaʻohe ona manaʻo ikaika i ka holomua a me ka pōmaikaʻi.

Eia kekahi, ua ʻōlelo ka poʻe loio, he kanaka mālama ʻole ʻia ʻo ia ma ka hapa nui o nā ʻano o kona ola, ʻo ia ka mea nui o ke olakino e alakaʻi ai iā ia i ka maʻi a me ka ʻeha, a e haʻalele ʻia hoʻi ʻo ia i kona ʻano a me ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kona akamai. a ʻo ia mea e hoʻopōʻino ai iā ia ma hope no ka mea e pono ai ke ola i kēlā me kēia manawa i kahi kaʻina o ka hoʻolaʻa ʻana i ka ʻike, nā mākau a me nā hiki, ʻo ia hoʻi He kanaka mālama ʻole a palaualelo ʻo ia, a e luku ʻo ia iā ia iho ma ke ʻano weliweli.

• Ua hoʻomaopopo pū kekahi o nā unuhi ʻōlelo inā he ʻōpala ke apo, a laila, he pilina nui ka wehewehe ʻana o ka hihiʻo me ka ʻeha a ka mea moeʻuhane e ʻike nei i kēia manawa, a ʻo kēia ʻeha e hoʻoulu i loko ona i ka manaʻo ʻole a me ka hiki ʻole ke hana. hana i nā mea he nui, a no laila ʻo ka ʻaoʻao mua e hoʻopili ʻia i kona ola ʻana, ʻo ia ka ʻaoʻao waiwai, a ʻo ke Akua kiʻekiʻe a ʻike wau.

He aha ka wehewehe o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke komo ʻana i ke apo kālā ma ka lima hema o kahi wahine hoʻokahi?

He ʻelua manaʻo o kēia hihiʻo, ʻo ka mea mua inā ʻike ʻo ia i ka waiwai o ke apo a he pipiʻi kona kumukūʻai, a laila hōʻike ka hihiʻo i kāna male ʻana i kahi kāne ʻōpio i loaʻa ke kālā palena ʻole a ʻike i kēlā hihiʻo, ʻo ia hoʻi, e hele koke ana ʻo ia i ka male ʻana, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hele ma ke kahua hoʻopalau, akā e mare koke ʻo ia i loko o kekahi mau pule a i ʻole mau mahina.

He aha ka wehewehe o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke komo ʻana i ke apo kālā ma ka lima ʻākau?

Ma waena o nā loina a me nā loina o ka Hikina, ʻo ke apo hoʻopaʻa a i ʻole ke komo ʻana i ka lima o Mona, no laila, ʻo kēia hiʻohiʻona e hōʻike ana i kahi hoʻopaʻa ʻana no ka poʻe hoʻokahi. ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana a ʻaʻohe pilikia a kūʻē paha.

He aha ke ʻano o ka ʻike ʻana i ka poʻe make e komo ana i ke apo kala?

ʻO ka mea i make i komo i ke apo kālā i loko o kāna moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ke kākoʻo nui no kekahi o kona ʻohana, a malia paha e hiki mai kekahi mea hauʻoli e hauʻoli ai ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa.