Nā lole hou i ka moeʻuhane
- ʻO nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke ʻano o nā lole hou e hōʻike ana i nā manaʻo koʻikoʻi a maʻamau inā ʻike ke kanaka i kona ʻaʻahu ʻana i nā lole hou, ʻo ia ka mea maʻamau he hōʻailona o ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i nā kūlana a me ka manaʻolana hou, a e hōʻike paha i ka piʻi ʻana o ka waiwai a i ʻole. ʻo ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ke kūlana kālā, inā paha ʻo ia e noho nei ma kahi kūlana maikaʻi a ʻaʻole paha.
- ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā lole hou i loko o nā moeʻuhane no ka poʻe hoʻokahi e lawe i ka lono o ka male ʻana a i ʻole ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kahi ola hou he hōʻailona kēia o ka hoʻohou a me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i nā kūlana, a ʻo ka wehe ʻana paha i kahi ʻaoʻao hou i piha i nā pōmaikaʻi a me ke ola.
- ʻO nā lole hou i loko o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahiʻoihana kūikawā e hōʻike ana i nā manawa kūpono a me nā loaʻa e pili ana i kēlāʻoihana aʻoihana paha.
- ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi mau lole hou a i ʻole nā ʻāpana liʻiliʻi i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i nā lanakila liʻiliʻi, a ʻo ka lilo a ʻaihue ʻana paha i nā lole hou hiki ke lawe i kekahi mau hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole e like me ka nalowale o nā manawa a i ʻole ke kālā.
Ke kūʻai ʻana i nā lole hou ma ka moeʻuhane
- ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona o ke kūʻai ʻana i nā lole hou i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka ʻōlelo maikaʻi a me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ke ʻano o ka noho ʻana No ka mea e ʻimi nei i ka hana, ʻo kēia moeʻuhane paha ke ʻano o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hana hou, aʻo ka mea i loaʻa i ka hopohopo, hiki ke hōʻike i ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka pilikia.
- ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kūʻai ʻana i nā lole hou he hōʻailona ia e loaʻa ai i ke kanaka nā ʻike hou a i ʻole nā ʻano maikaʻi e pono ai i kona ola. Wahi a Ibn Siran, ʻo kēia ʻano moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ke ola a me ka pōmaikaʻi no ka mea waiwai a ʻilihune paha.
- ʻO ka ʻike ʻana iā ʻoe iho i ke kūʻai ʻana i kahi pālule hou ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka maikaʻi o nā kūlana no ka mea moeʻuhane a me nā loli maikaʻi i kona ola inā paʻa ka pālule hou i ka moeʻuhane, hiki ke hōʻike i ka emi ʻana o nā kūlana a i ʻole nā pilikia.
- ʻO kaʻikeʻana iāʻoe iho e kūʻai ana i nā pants hou ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i nā manawa kūpono e mare aiʻole e pōmaikaʻi ma kekahiʻano mai ka wahine. Ua wehewehe ʻia kēia hihiʻo he hōʻailona o ka hālāwai ʻana me kekahi kanaka hou a he naita moeʻuhane paha ia no ka mea moeʻuhane.
- Ināʻike ka mea moeʻuhane heʻaʻahu wale kona, hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i kahi kūlana o ke kālā a iʻole ka manaʻo o ka discomfort i loko o kona ola ke kūʻaiʻana i nā lole komo hou i loko o ka moeʻuhane i manaʻoʻia he lono maikaʻi e wānana i ka maleʻana no ke kanaka hoʻokahi a me ka maikaʻi a me ka pōmaikaʻi no ka kanaka male, oi loa aku ke aahu pono ia.
- ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona o ke kūʻai ʻana i nā pants hou i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kahi moʻolelo ʻoihana hou a i ʻole kahi papahana hoihoi e holomua ai ka mea moeʻuhane.
- ʻO nā lole hou me nā waihoʻoluʻu ʻālohilohi a me nā hoʻolālā paʻakikī, hiki ke hōʻike i nā pilikia koʻikoʻi, inā he pilikia olakino ia no ka mea e loaʻa ana i ka maʻi, a i ʻole nā pilikia e ulu mai ana i ka mana o ka mea e ʻike ana iā lākou ʻOiai ʻaʻole hoʻopiʻi nā lole kala i nā mea a pau, kūpono paha lākou no ka wahine.
ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kūʻaiʻana i nā lole hou i ka moeʻuhane o ka wahine hoʻokahi
- Ke moeʻuhane ke kaikamahine e koho ana a kūʻai aku i nā lole hou a nani, ʻo ia paha ke ʻano o ke ala e holomua ai a hoʻomaikaʻi i kona kūlana pili i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
- Inā he mea maʻalahi nā lole āna e kūʻai ai a ʻaʻole o ke ʻano kiʻekiʻe ma ka moeʻuhane, e hōʻike ana paha ia e kū nei ʻo ia i kekahi mau pilikia a he hōʻailona paha kēia e noʻonoʻo hou ai i kāna mau hoʻoholo a i ʻole nā hoʻolālā o kēia manawa.
- ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kūʻaiʻana i nā lole hou no ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi hiki ke lilo i hōʻailona maikaʻi,ʻoiai inā he kūpono a nani nā lole, no ka mea, e hōʻike ana kēia i kaʻaeʻana a me ke aloha o nā mea'ē aʻe iā ia a me ka paʻa o kona pilina pilikino.
- Inā ʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi i kona koho ʻana i nā lole kūpono ʻole a i ʻole hōʻike ʻana i ka asymmetry ma ka moeʻuhane, e hōʻike ana paha ia e hele ana ʻo ia i loko o kahi manawa paʻa ʻole i kona noʻonoʻo a hopohopo paha no kāna mau pilina, a he kono paha kēia iā ia e lawe i ka lawa. manawa e noʻonoʻo ai i kāna mau hoʻoholo e hiki mai ana.
- Inā ʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi e ʻimi ana ʻo ia i nā lole i kūpono iā ia akā ʻaʻole i loaʻa, hōʻike paha kēia i kona manaʻo i ka nalowale o ka maopopo o kāna mau pahuhopu a i ʻole ka noʻonoʻo noʻonoʻo, e koi ana iā ia e kālele nui i ka wehewehe ʻana a me ka hahai ʻana i kāna mau pahuhopu.
