He ʻakaʻaka me ka poʻe make ma ka moeʻuhane
Ke ʻike ʻoe i ke kanaka ma ka moeʻuhane e hoʻololi ana i ka ʻakaʻaka a me ka ʻakaʻaka me kahi mea i make, he nui nā wehewehe ʻana o kēia moe e lawe ana i ka nūhou maikaʻi a me ka nūhou e hoʻololi i ka maikaʻi a e hoʻomaha ʻia ka ʻeha.
No ka wahine hāpai i ʻike i kahi mea make e ʻakaʻaka pū me ia ma kāna moeʻuhane, hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia i mea hōʻike e maʻalahi a maʻalahi kona hānau ʻana. Inā hemo ka mea moeʻuhane, a laila ʻike i kahi mea make e ʻakaʻaka pū me ia i ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka lanakila ʻana i nā pilikia āna i kū ai i ke ola a neʻe i nā hoʻomaka hou.
ʻO ka mea moeʻuhane i ka ʻike ʻana i ka mea make e ʻakaʻaka a me ka ʻakaʻaka pū me ia, he hōʻailona paha ia o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka holomua a me ka kūleʻa ma ka hana, e alakaʻi ana i ka hōʻea ʻana i nā kūlana kiʻekiʻe a loaʻa i kahi kūlana koʻikoʻi i ka lehulehu. Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei hoʻi nā mea unuhi moe e hiki i ka ʻakaʻaka o ka mea i make ma ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ka nalowale o nā pilikia a me nā aie no ka mea moeʻuhane a me kona hiki ke hoʻoponopono iā lākou.
Inā hoʻololi ke kūlana o ka mea i make mai ka ʻakaʻaka a i ke kaumaha ma ka moeʻuhane, e hōʻike ana paha kēia i ka hauʻoli o ka mea i make i kona kūlana a i ʻole ke hōʻike ʻana i ke kaumaha o kāna mau hewa.
Ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i ka ʻakaʻaka me kahi mea make ma ka moeʻuhane no kahi kaikamahine hoʻokahi
Ke moeʻuhane ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi e pāʻani ana ʻo ia i ka ʻakaʻaka a me ka ʻakaʻaka me kahi kanaka i make, hiki ke noʻonoʻo ʻia he hōʻailona maikaʻi e hōʻike ana e hālāwai ʻo ia me kahi ʻōpio i kūpono iā ia no ka pilina. Inā ʻo ka mea i make ma ka moeʻuhane ʻo ia kekahi o kona mau mākua, hōʻike kēia i ko lākou hauʻoli i kāna ʻano a me ka hōʻoia ʻana i ko lākou haʻaheo i ke ʻano o kona hānai ʻia ʻana a me ka inoa maikaʻi āna e hauʻoli ai.
ʻO kekahi wahine ʻōpio e ʻike ana i kāna hoaaloha make e ʻakaʻaka ana me ia ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki ke hōʻike i kona manaʻo mehameha ma hope o ka nalowale ʻana iā ia a hōʻike i ka nostalgia no kona alo. Inā noi ka hoaaloha i make e kamaʻilio me ka mea moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona kēia o ke koʻikoʻi o ka pule nona.
ʻO kaʻakaʻaka a me ka hoʻohenehene me ka mea i make ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia e hoʻokō kokeʻia nā moeʻuhane a me nā makemake o ke kaikamahine a e lanakilaʻo ia i nā pilikia e hiki ke kū i kona ala, e hōʻike ana i ke ola piha i ka hauʻoli a me ka hōʻoia. ʻO kēia mau hiʻohiʻona no ke kaikamahine haumāna kekahi e lawe mai i ka nūhou maikaʻi o ka holomua a me ka maikaʻi i kāna mau haʻawina.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻakaʻaka me kahi mea make ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine male
Ke moeʻuhane ka wahine male e pāʻani ana ʻo ia i ka ʻakaʻaka a me ka leʻaleʻa me kahi mea make i aloha ʻia e ia, lawe kēia i nā manaʻo maikaʻi a hoʻohiki i nā lono maikaʻi e ʻike koke ʻia i kona ola. He hōʻike paha kēia moeʻuhane i ka hoʻokō ʻana o kahi makemake lōʻihi i kali ʻia.
ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā manawa hauʻoli me kona makuakāne i make ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i kona ʻoluʻolu a me ke aloha iā ia, e hoʻonui ai i kona mau manaʻo o ka maluhia o loko a me ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo. He hōʻailona paha kēia mau moeʻuhane no kona kūpaʻa a me ke kālā.
No ka wahine e manaʻolana ana i ka makuahine, he hōʻailona paha ka moeʻuhane o ka hāpai ʻana e hiki mai ana, ke ʻae ke Akua. Inā he makuahine ʻo ia, hōʻike kēia mau hihiʻo i ka wā e hiki mai ana no kāna mau keiki, piha i ka holomua a me ke alakaʻi.
Ināʻikeʻo ia ma ka moeʻuhane e hoʻohenehene anaʻo ia me kāna kāne i make, he hōʻailona kēia e hoʻokō neiʻo ia i kāna kuleana ma keʻano he makuahine ma keʻano eʻoluʻolu a hauʻoli iā ia. ʻO kēia mau hihiʻo he hoʻolaha hoʻi e hiki mai ana ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka hōʻoluʻolu inā e kū ana ʻo ia i nā pilikia kālā a i ʻole koʻikoʻi i kona ola. Inā hele ʻo ia i kahi manawa o ka maʻi, ʻo ka launa pū ʻana i ka moeʻuhane me kahi mea aloha i nalowale e lawe i ka nūhou maikaʻi o kona kūlana olakino.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea make e ʻakaʻaka ana i ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hemo a i ʻole ka wahine kāne make
Ke ʻike ka wahine, inā he wahine kāne make a he wahine hemo paha, i ka mea i make e ʻaʻahu ana i nā lole uliuli a hōʻike i ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli, ʻo ia hoʻi he kanaka maikaʻi ʻo ia a e lanakila ʻo ia i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia o kona ola.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka poʻe make e haʻalele ana i ko lākou mau lua kupapaʻu me ka hauʻoli a me ka manaʻolana, e hōʻike ana e lohe ka wahine i nā lono e hauʻoli ai.
