E hele ana me kaʻu kāne mua ma ka moeʻuhane
Inā moe ka wahine male male e hele pū ana ʻo ia me kāna kāne mua i kahi wahi maikaʻi loa, e hōʻike ana kēia i ka hoʻomau ʻana o kāna mau manaʻo maikaʻi iā ia. Hōʻike kēia kūlana i kona makemake nui e hoʻihoʻi hou i ka pilina, a he hōʻailona paha ia e hoʻokō ʻia ai kāna mau makemake i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
Inā ʻike ʻo ia ma kāna moeʻuhane e hoʻāʻo ana kāna kāne mua e hoʻopōʻino iā ia, e hōʻike ana kēia i kāna ʻano i kekahi ʻano maikaʻi ʻole ke kumu o ka kaʻawale ʻana, ʻoiai ua manaʻo ke kāne ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e noho ma lalo o ka hale hoʻokahi.
Akā inā ʻike ʻo ia i kahi ʻano ʻē aʻe, e like me ke kaikamahine, e hele pū ana me lākou, ʻo ka moeʻuhane paha he hōʻike ia o ke kumakaia.
Ke moeʻuhane ka wahine e noi ana ʻo ia i kāna kāne e hele pū, hōʻike kēia i kona makemake nui iā ia a me kona manaʻolana e hoʻoponopono i ka pilina a hoʻi i ke kahua o ka lokahi.
Inā ʻo ke kāne ka mea nāna i hoʻomaka i ka noi ma ka moeʻuhane e hele pū, e hōʻike ana kēia i kona mau manaʻo pumehana iā ia, a me kona makemake e kūkulu hou i nā alahaka o ke kamaʻilio ʻana ma waena o lākou, a ʻo ka hoʻokō ʻana o kēia manaʻolana e hiki koke mai, ʻoiai inā ʻo ka wahine. hōʻike i ka ʻae ʻana i ka manaʻo.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi kāne hemo
Inā ʻike ka wahine male male ma kāna moeʻuhane e noho ana ʻo ia ma ka ʻaoʻao o kāna kāne mua a ke kūkākūkā nei lākou i ka hihia o ka hemo ʻana a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, e hōʻike paha kēia i kahi mea i loko ona e makemake ana e wehewehe a i ʻole e ʻike i nā kumu o ka mea i hana ʻia ma waena o lāua.
Inā ʻike ʻo ia ma ka moeʻuhane e paipai ana kona ʻohana iā ia e kamaʻilio me ia a pono ʻo ia iā lākou, e hōʻike ana paha kēia i ka manaʻoʻiʻo i loko o kona lunamanaʻo e hele ana kāna kāne mua i nā manawa paʻakikī a makemake ʻo ia i kāna kākoʻo.
ʻO kāna moeʻuhane e kamaʻilio ana lākou i kahi hālāwai e like me kā lākou mau hālāwai manaʻo mua e hiki ke hōʻike i kona pilikia i ka ʻae ʻana i ka manaʻo e haʻalele mau iā ia.
Inā ma ka moeʻuhane e kamaʻilio lākou e pili ana i ke kākoʻo kālā ma hope o ka hemo ʻana, ʻo ia paha ke kū nei ʻo ia a i ʻole e kū i nā pilikia ma kēia ʻano akā ke manaʻo nei e hoʻoponopono koke iā lākou.
ʻO ke kūkākūkā a i ʻole ke kuʻikahi ma ke kelepona me ka ex-kāne i loko o ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia o nā manaʻo o ka ʻāʻī i loaʻa ma mua o ka hemo ʻana, ʻo ia hoʻi ʻo ka kaʻawale ʻana, i kona manaʻo, ʻo ia ke koho kūpono.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kaʻu kāne mua e nānā mai ana iaʻu
Inā ʻike ʻoe ma ka moeʻuhane e nānā ana kāu kāne mua iā ʻoe, he hōʻailona paha kēia e noʻonoʻo ana ʻo ia iā ʻoe a makemake ʻo ia e ʻike pehea ʻoe. Inā ʻakaʻaka ʻo ia i ka nānā ʻana iā ʻoe, e hōʻike ana paha kēia i kona makemake e hoʻi hou i kou ola. Inā ʻakaʻaka ʻo ia, e hōʻike ana paha e alakaʻi hewa a hoʻopunipuni paha ʻo ia iā ʻoe. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kāu kāne mua e kaumaha ana i ka nānā ʻana iā ʻoe e hōʻike ana e hele ana ʻo ia i nā manawa paʻakikī.
Ke nānā ʻo ia iā ʻoe me ka ʻiʻini nui, e hōʻike ana i kona minamina nui iā ʻoe. Inā nānā ʻo ia iā ʻoe me nā hiʻohiʻona hoʻowahāwahā, ʻo ia paha ka manaʻo e mihi ana ʻo ia i kekahi mau mea i hala.
ʻO ka moeʻuhane e nānā ana kāu kāne mua i kou kino ma ke ʻano kūpono ʻole hiki ke hōʻike i kona manaʻo ʻino iā ʻoe. Inā nānā ʻo ia i kou ʻaʻahu, hōʻike kēia e ʻimi ʻo ia e ʻike i ka nūhou e pili ana iā ʻoe a ʻike i kāu hana.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kāu kāne mua e hahai ana i kahi wahine āu i ʻike ai e hōʻike ana paha ʻo ia e kamaʻilio pū ana me ʻoe. ʻOiai ʻo ia e ʻike iā ia e nānā ana i kahi wahine ʻē aʻe paha e hōʻike i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kahi māhele hou o kona ola ma kahi mamao aku iā ʻoe.
