He aha ke ʻano o ka moeʻuhane o ke apo komo gula, kālā a me nā daimana?

 

ʻO ke apo hoʻopaʻa kekahi o nā moeʻuhane a ka wahine hoʻokahi e ʻike pinepine ai i kāna mau moeʻuhane, ʻoiai inā e noʻonoʻo nui ʻo ia i kēia mea a i ʻole ka pilikia o ka male male ʻana.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo komo no ka wahine hoʻokahi

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke apo hoʻopaʻa ma ka moeʻuhane no nā wahine hoʻokahi, ʻo ia kekahi o nā hiʻohiʻona mahalo ʻia nona, ʻoiai e hōʻike ana i kona pilina pili ʻana me kahi kanaka kūpono, akā aia kekahi mau hōʻailona ʻē aʻe e pili ana ka hihiʻo e like me ke ʻano o kēia apo a me ka metala. kahi i hana ʻia ai, a e like me ke kūlana psychological o ke kaikamahine.

• Inā ʻike ke kaikamahine he apo gula ma kona lima, a laila e mare ʻo ia i kahi kanaka waiwai, akā e pilikia pū ʻo ia me ia i nā pilikia he nui i ka wā o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana, a hiki ke kū mai kēia hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma muli o ka ʻokoʻa o kā lākou mau kumu. nā manaʻo i ke ola.
• Aia no hoi ke kaikamahine i ike ma kona moeuhane, ua hanaia kona apo me na daimana, a o ka hihio maanei, he hoike ia no ka nui o ke kaulana o ka mea e launa pu ai, no ka mea, ua kaulana paha ia iwaena o na kanaka. e hōʻike ana i ka hauʻoli nui o ka noho ʻana o ke kaikamahine me kēia kāne.
• No Imam Al-Sadiq, ua hōʻike ʻo ia ʻo kēia hihiʻo ma ka moeʻuhane o kahi kaikamahine he hōʻike ia o nā loli koʻikoʻi i kona ola, a ʻaʻole pili kēia mau loli i ka male a me ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana. o ka naauao, a pela aku.

•  He manaʻo ʻē aʻe kekahi o ka poʻe psychologists me kēia hihiʻo, ʻoiai ua ʻōlelo lākou ʻo ka noʻonoʻo ʻana o ka wahine hoʻokahi a me kona nānā ʻana i kēlā manaʻo i loko o kona noʻonoʻo e paʻi ʻia i loko o ka noʻonoʻo subconscious e noho ala ana i ka wā hiamoe, a hoʻopuka i kēia mau moeʻuhane e māʻona ai. hauʻoli, a hoʻokō i kona manaʻo.
• Akā inā ʻaʻole ia he moeʻuhane paipu, a laila hōʻike maoli ia i kahi hoʻololi i kahi pae hou o ke ola o ke kaikamahine, a ua wehewehe ʻia kēia hoʻololi he maikaʻi ʻole a maikaʻi paha e like me ke ʻano o ke apo, a inā ʻike ʻo ia ʻo ia. e komo ana, e hiki aku ana ia i kana mea i makemake ai.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo komo no ka wahine hoʻokahi e Ibn Sirin

• Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Ibn Sirin he hōʻike kēia hihiʻo e loaʻa i ke kaikamahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana ke kanaka nāna e hoʻolauna iā ia, a ʻo kona kūlana me kēia kāne male a me kona ola e hiki mai ana me ia e hilinaʻi ʻia i ke ʻano o ke apo. ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka wikiwiki e hoʻopau i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana ma mua o ka male ʻana a noho i kahi ola hauʻoli ʻole me ia.
• No ka mea hao, he mea ia e hoike mai ai, ua pili kona manao i ke kanaka ino, a e oki koke ke kaikamahine i kona mau kaula me ia, a e hoomanawanui a kali i ke Akua e hoopomaikai mai iaia me ke kane kupono.
• Ua ʻōlelo pū ʻo ia aia ke apo ma ka lima o ke kaikamahine, inā manaʻo ʻo ia he haiki a ākea paha nona, a laila, he hōʻailona ia o ka nele o ke kaulike ma waena o nā kāne male a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea pili i ka manaʻo me ka ʻole o ka paʻa mana. akā inā hāʻule kāna apo hoʻopalau i ka honua, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia e hōʻike ana kēia hihiʻo i ka hoʻokō ʻana o kāna mau pahuhopu i ke ola.   

ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke komoʻana i ke apo komo i loko o ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hoʻokahi

He mea hauʻoli kēia ʻike i ka mea nānā, a ʻo ka manawa kēia e puka ai i waho o kona mau kaumaha a pau āna i hele ai i ka wā i hala ma muli o ka lohi o kāna male ʻana, akā aia kekahi mau hihia e hōʻike ana i nā hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole o ka hihiʻo. , e like me, ina ua ike ke kaikamahine e komo ana i ke apo komo, aka, ua ike oia ua hana ia me ka plastic, i loko o keia hihia, e makaala ia i kekahi o na enemi e hoopuni ana iaia a makemake e hana ino a me ka poino. a no ka lili a me ka inaina paha ko lakou inaina ia ia.

Inā pili maoli ke kaikamahine i kekahi kanaka ʻōpio a makemake ʻo ia e hui pū me ia, a ʻike ʻo ia i loko o kāna moeʻuhane ua komo ʻo ia i ke komo komo, a laila e mare ʻo ia i kēia kanaka, ʻoiai inā i hana ʻia ke apo. ʻo nā daimana a i ʻole kālā, akā inā i hana ʻia ke apo i ka metala makamae e like me ka hao a i ʻole Plastic eia kahi hōʻailona o kahi kūʻē nui ma waena o nā mea aloha ʻelua, a hiki ke alakaʻi i ka kaʻawale.

Akā inā ʻike ke kaikamahine e komo ana ʻo ia i ke apo i loko o kāna moeʻuhane, ua hoʻololi ʻo ia i kekahi ʻano ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka mua; ʻO ka ʻike ma ʻaneʻi he hōʻike ia ʻaʻole i hoʻokō ʻia kāna pilina i kēia manawa, a e nānā hou ʻo ia iā ia iho a hoʻopau i kāna pilina me ia, a ma hope o ka manawa pōkole, e ʻike ʻo ia i kahi ʻōpio maikaʻi aʻe a hui pū me ia. a loaa ka hauoli ana i makemake ai me ia.

A ʻo ke kaikamahine i ʻike i loko o ke apo he lobe i hana ʻia me nā metala makamae e like me nā daimana, a laila he hōʻike kēia e noho hauʻoli nui ai ʻo ia me kahi kanaka kūpono e pili koke ana me ia, akā inā e hāʻule ka lobe mai ke apo. , a laila he hōʻike ia o nā pilikia e ʻike ʻia ana kona ola a kaʻawale paha ʻo ia mai kāna kāne hoʻopalau Hiki ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kaumaha nui ma hope o kēia haʻihaʻi.

ʻO ke apo i kākau ʻia ai ʻole i kahakaha ʻia he mea hōʻike ia e hoʻokō ai i kāna mau ʻiʻini a me kona mau makemake i ke ola, a loaʻa iā ia kahi ʻano pilikino hiki ke hoʻokūkū, a inā e ʻeha ʻo ia i ke alo o nā ʻenemi a puni ia, e hiki iā ia ke lanakila. ia lakou a pakele i ko lakou poino, aka, ina i hanaia i ke gula maemae a aohe ona lobe, oia kekahi o na hihio maikai ole i ka mea nona ka mea nona, no ka mea, he hoike ana ia i kona kino maikai a hana ole i na hana haipule, aka ʻo ka mea ʻē aʻe, aia ʻo ia ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka hoʻolohe a me nā hewa.

A i kona komo ana i ke komolima keleawe, he mea ia e hoike mai ana, oia kekahi o na kanaka poino o ke ao nei, a e loaa ana paha iaia i ka lili iloko o kona ola ana, a e lilo ai ka poe i aloha nui ia ia. he kūlana kaumaha a kaumaha nui.

ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke komoʻana i ke apo komo i loko o ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hoʻokahi

Ina he nani ia ma kona manamana lima, a laila, he hōʻike kēia i kona manaʻo ʻoluʻolu me kekahi o nā mea noi no kāna hoʻopalau, a ma ka male ʻana iā ia e hauʻoli ʻo ia i ka hauʻoli a me ka ʻoluʻolu. ʻaʻole kūpono ʻo ia iā ia.

Hōʻike kēia apo i kona manaʻolana e hoʻokō ʻia ana, inā he kaikamahine ʻōpio ʻaʻole i hiki i ka makahiki o ka male ʻana, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana iā ia i ke komo ʻana i kēia apo, he hōʻike ia o kona kūlana haʻawina a me ke aloha o nā kānaka iā ia ma muli o kona ʻano maikaʻi. Akā inā ua hiki ʻo ia i ka makahiki o ka male ʻana a ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana a me ka paʻa ʻana o ka ʻohana, a laila ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kēia moe e hōʻike ana e hoʻokō koke ʻia kāna makemake.

ʻO ke komo ʻana o ke apo hoʻopaʻa a ke kaikamahine he mea hōʻike ia he alakaʻi nui ʻo ia e hiki ke mālama i kāna mau hana pilikino me ka nele o kekahi, a hiki iā ia ke hoʻokele i ke ola o nā mea ʻē aʻe, a ʻo ka ʻike ʻana he hōʻailona paha ia i kona mana ma luna o ke kanaka. e hui pū ʻia ʻo ia ma o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana, akā i ka manawa like, ua maikaʻi ʻo ia i ka hana ʻana me ia a ʻaʻole hoʻi e ʻike iā ia i ka ikaika o kona ʻano ma ke ʻano e hōʻeha iā ia i ka psychologically.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo gula no ka wahine hoʻokahi

• ʻO ke apo gula e hōʻike ana i ka nalo ʻana o kahi kanaka i aloha ʻia e ka puʻuwai o ke kaikamahine, a i ʻole kona hāʻule ʻole ʻana i kahi pilina pili me ke kanaka i ʻike ʻia ai ʻo ia e ka maikaʻi a me nā ʻano kūpono, a ua makemake nui ʻo ia e mare iā ia, akā ʻo ka hopena. o ka nui o na hoopaapaa mawaena o na ohana elua, hiki ke okiia keia pilina.
• ʻO ke kaikamahine e ʻike ana i kēia ʻano apo he mea hōʻike ia e loaʻa ana i ke kaumaha ma muli o kona lohi ʻana i ka male ʻana, a ua pili pū paha ʻo ia me kahi kanaka ʻino a me kona ʻano pono e hoʻopau wale ai i ke ola mehameha āna i manaʻo ai.
• Ua ʻōlelo ka mea aʻoaʻo ʻo Ibn Shaheen, ʻo kēia hihiʻo e hōʻike ana ua loaʻa i ke kaikamahine kahi hana hanohano, ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kālā he nui, kahi e kūʻokoʻa ai ʻo ia i kona ola a ʻaʻole e ʻae i kekahi e hoʻomalu i kāna mau hana pilikino, a ua ʻōlelo pū ʻo ia. inā pili ʻo ia i kahi kanaka kikoʻī ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a ʻike ʻo ia i kēlā hihiʻo i kāna moeʻuhane, a laila ʻo ia ʻo Hōʻike e pānaʻi ana ʻo ia i nā manaʻo like iā ia, a ua koʻikoʻi ʻo ia i kāna pilina me ia.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke komo ʻana i ke apo gula no nā wahine hoʻokahi

• ʻO ke komo ʻana i ke apo gula maʻemaʻe me ka ʻole o nā lobes he mea hōʻike ia e hahai ana ʻo ia i kahi ala ʻē aʻe o ke ola, a ua pili ʻo ia me kekahi mau hoaaloha maikaʻi ʻole e alakaʻi iā ia i ke ala o ka palaho a me ka mamao mai ke Akua.
• Aka, ina he lobe makamae iloko o ke apo i hanaia i ke gula, alaila, he mau hoike keia o ka maikai e hiki koke mai ana iaia, no ka mea, e loaa ana iaia ke kane maikai, ka hookiekie ana i kana hana, a me ka maikai o kana ao ana.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo komo no ka wahine hoʻokahi ma kona lima hema

• Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Ibn Sirin, ʻo ke kūlana psychological o ke kaikamahine ka mea e hoʻoholo ai i ka wehewehe ʻana o kēlā hihiʻo. Inā hauʻoli ʻo ia, ʻo ka hihiʻo ka hōʻailona o kona hauʻoli i ka wā e hiki mai ana a me kona hui pū ʻana me kahi kanaka kaulana i ʻike ʻia i waena o nā poʻe no ke ʻano maikaʻi.
• Ua ʻōlelo pū ʻia ma kāna wehewehe ʻana e hōʻike ana ke ola nei ka mea ʻike maka i kahi kūlana holomua i kona ola hana, a ua hiki iā ia ke lanakila i nā pilikia e kū nei i mua ona ma ke ala o ka maikaʻi o ke ola.

ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo komo no ka wahine hoʻokahi ma ka lima'ākau

• ʻO ka ʻike ʻana o ke kaikamahine e komo ana i ke apo ma kona lima ʻākau e hōʻike ana e hiki mai ana kāna mau moeʻuhane, ke kali nei ʻo ia i ke kipa ʻana mai kahi kanaka e hoʻopalau koke iā ia, a e loaʻa i kēia kanaka ka ʻae ʻia e nā mea a pau, ʻo ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻana ma waena o lākou e hiki wawe a laha ka hauʻoli i nā ʻohana a pau.
• Inā ʻike ʻo ia i kekahi kanaka e kau ana i ke apo ma kona lima, e pili pū ana ʻo ia me kēlā kanaka.
• No kona ike ana e kuai ana i ke apo ma kona lima akau, he hoike keia o ka hookaawale ana mawaena ona me kana ipo, a oia ke kumu o keia kaawale ana.
• Inā i hana ʻia ke apo i ke kālā, he hōʻailona ia o kāna hoʻopaʻa ʻana me kāna mea i aloha ai, akā inā i hana ʻia i ke gula, a laila he hōʻailona ia o kāna male ʻana i kāna kāne hoʻopalau i kēia manawa a me ka hoʻomau ʻana o kona ola me ia.
• Ua ʻōlelo pū ʻia e pili ana i ke apo i hana ʻia i ke kālā he hōʻike ia o ka mālie noʻonoʻo o ke kaikamahine i kēia manawa ma hope o kona hoʻokau ʻia ʻana i nā pilikia noʻonoʻo i ka wā i hala.
• Ua ʻōlelo pū ʻia ma ka wehewehe ʻana o kēia hihiʻo, he hōʻike ia no ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā pilikia a me nā hopohopo he nui i loaʻa i ke kaikamahine i ka wā i hala. , ka mea i aloha ia ia e ka poe a pau e pili ana iaia.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo hoʻopaʻa no ke kanaka hoʻokahi mai kahi āu i ʻike ai

• I ka ike ana o kekahi kaikamahine he hoopalau ma waena ona me kekahi o na kanaka i ike ia; He hōʻike kēia o ka pili ʻana i ka manaʻo ma waena ona a me kēia kanaka.
• Akā, inā ʻike ʻia ʻo ia no kāna mau ʻano ʻino i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a ʻike ʻo ia e komo ana ʻo ia i ke apo hoʻopaʻa ponoʻī, a laila e hāʻule paha ʻo ia i loko o kahi pahele i hoʻopaʻa ʻia nona e ke kanaka ʻino, akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike i ka nui o ka pōʻino o kāna. e ʻike ʻia, a pono ʻo ia e makaʻala loa mai kekahi kanaka ʻino.
• No ka Imam Al-Sadiq, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ke kaikamahine i hoʻopalau ʻia i ke kanaka kūlana kiʻekiʻe ma ka ʻoihana, a i ʻole kāna luna ma ka hana, he hōʻike ia o kona hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻana i kāna hana a me kona loaʻa ʻana i kahi kūlana hanohano i waena o kona mau hoa.

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• ʻO ke kaikamahine hoʻopalau, ʻoiaʻiʻo, inā ʻike ʻo ia e komo ana ʻo ia i ke komo ʻana i ke apo hoʻopaʻa ʻana mai kahi mea ʻē aʻe āna i ʻike ai, a laila ua pilikia ʻo ia i nā pilikia he nui me kāna kāne hoʻopalau i kēia manawa, a ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e hoʻomau i kona ola me ia, akā i ka manawa like manawa ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kaʻawale mai iā ia.
• Ina ike ke kaikamahine i kona aloha i kekahi o kana mau kumu a hoopalau me ia ma ka moeuhane, alaila, he kaikamahine oi keia ma kana ao ana, a he manao nui kona e hoopau i kana ao ana a e loaa na degere kiekie.
• Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Imam Al-Nabulsi ʻaʻole pili kēia hihiʻo i ka pili ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā i kekahi hihia e hōʻike ana i ka hauʻoli i ke ola a me ka nūhou maikaʻi e loaʻa iā ʻoe i nā lā e hiki mai ana.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kūʻai ʻana i ke apo komo i loko o ka moeʻuhane

• He nui nā manaʻo o kēia ʻike. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i ke ʻano o ke kaikamahine i ʻike ʻia e ka ambition a me ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoiai hiki iā ia ke wehewehe i ka pahuhopu āna e ʻimi nei, a loaʻa nō hoʻi ka hiki ke hoʻokō i kēia pahuhopu.
• ʻO ke kūʻai ʻana i ke apo hoʻopaʻa hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana e hala ʻo ia i ke kahua āna e noho nei i kēia manawa, i piha i ke kaumaha a me nā hopohopo, a e hele aku ia i kahi pae ʻē aʻe i ʻike ʻia e ka hauʻoli a me ka mālie.
• ʻAʻole pili paha ka wehewehe ʻana o kēia hihiʻo i ka hoʻopalau ʻana a i ʻole ka male ʻana o ke kaikamahine, akā hiki ke hōʻike i kona kūlana kiʻekiʻe a i ʻole ka holomua ʻana i loko o kona ola hana, a me kona hiki ke hoʻokumu i ka pilina a i ʻole ka pilina me ka poʻe e pili ana iā ia.

Ua moe au ua komo au i ke apo hoopalau, heaha ke ano o ia mea?

• Ke moeʻuhane ke kaikamahine i kēia hihiʻo a ʻike ʻo ia e komo ana i ke apo gula, hōʻike ia i kona kūlana maikaʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana a me kona hauʻoli i kahi psyche paʻa ma mua o ka wā ma mua.
• Akā inā noʻonoʻo nui ʻo ia e pili ana i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana a i ʻole kahi kanaka āna i aloha ai a makemake hoʻi e mare, ʻo ia wale nō paha ka unuhi ʻana o kāna manaʻo.
• Ua ʻōlelo kekahi poʻe naʻauao, inā ʻike ke kaikamahine ua hoʻopalau ʻo ia a hauʻoli ʻo ia i kēia moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona ia ua hiki mai kāna moeʻuhane a ua kokoke mai kāna hoʻopaʻa ʻana.
• Aka, ina ike oia ua paa loa kona apo ma kona manamana lima, alaila, aole oia i makemake i keia kanaka ana i hoopalau ai, a ua makemake oia e hoopau i keia pili ana, aole nae oia i aa e hoike aku i ka mea i loko o kona puuwai. i kona ʻohana, a laila, no ka nāwaliwali o kona ʻano.
• Inā ʻike ke kaikamahine e komo ana ʻo ia i ke apo ma kona manamana lima i kona wā liʻiliʻi, a laila ua loaʻa iā ia ka manaʻo o kahi papahana kūikawā a makemake ʻo ia e hoʻokumu, a ʻo kēia papahana, ʻoiai ʻo kona liʻiliʻi, e lawe nui mai iā ia. maikaʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana.

ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ke apo hoʻopaʻa i hana ʻia me ka hao

• He kuʻikahi ka poʻe akamai i ka wehewehe ʻana i kēia moe. Ina he ano ikaika ko ke kaikamahine, alaila, o kana moeuhane, he mea ia e hoike mai ai i kona hoopalau ana me ke kanaka nawaliwali i lawe ole i ke kuleana, a nana no e amo i na haawe a pau o ke ola mahope o kona mare ana me ia, koho e hoʻomau i kona ola me ia a i ʻole e hoʻokaʻawale iā ia inā makemake ʻo ia i kahi kāne nāna e mālama iā ia a mālama i kāna mau hana.
• Aka, ina he ipo maoli ko ke kaikamahine a makemake e launa pu me ia, a ua ike oia i kela hihio, alaila, he mea ia e hoike mai ai i ke ano ino o keia kanaka opio ana i launa aloha ai, a e hookaawale ia ia mai. ia ia koke, a e hoolohe i ka olelo a kona mau hoaloha, no ka mea, ike ko lakou mau maka i ka mea ana i ike ole ai iloko o kona naau.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka nalowale ʻana o ke apo komo

• Hōʻike kēia hihiʻo ʻaʻole i loaʻa i ke kaikamahine hoʻopalau nā manaʻo āna i hāʻawi ai i kāna kāne hoʻopalau, a ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻae mua e hui pū me ia.
• E hōʻike ana paha ka hihiʻo ua hoʻomaka ke kaikamahine e kanalua i kāna kāne hoʻopalau, a ua pili ʻo ia me kahi kaikamahine ʻē aʻe, kahi e hoʻonui ai i ka ikaika o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma waena o lākou. a e hoikeia ana keia mau pilikia ma ka nalo ana o kekahi kanaka i aloha nui ia e kona puuwai, e like me ka makuakane a me ke kaikunane, a me kona manao mahope o kona nalowale ana, ua lilo ia i mehameha a me ke kaumaha.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻaihue ʻana i ke apo komo?

ʻO ka hihiʻo e lawe i kekahi mau hōʻailona, ​​ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole mālama ke kaikamahine i ka haʻalele ʻana i kāna hoʻopaʻa ʻana me kēia kanaka a i ʻole no ka mea ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e pili pū me ia. ʻo ia ka mea i hoʻokumu i ka wili ma waena o nā kāne i hoʻopaʻa ʻia a hiki i ka hopena ke alakaʻi i ka kaʻawale.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka nalowale ʻana o ke apo komo i loko o ka moeʻuhane?

Ua manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia kekahi o nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi ʻole no ke kaikamahine, no ka mea e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻopau ʻana i kāna hoʻopaʻa ʻana inā ua hoʻopaʻa ʻia ʻo ia, a i ʻole nā ​​​​hōʻike ʻaʻole i koho ʻo ia i ke kanaka i hoʻopili aloha ʻia i loko o kahi pilina aloha i loaʻa ai i ke kaikamahine nā manaʻolana a me nā moeʻuhane ua ʻike ʻo ia ua hoʻopunipuni ʻia ʻo ia i loko o ia mea. ka pilina ma waena ona a me kāna kāne hoʻopalau.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo hoʻopaʻa inoa mai kahi mea āu i aloha ai?

ʻO kēia moeʻuhane i loko o ka moeʻuhane o kahi kaikamahine e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻokō ʻana o kāna mau iini i makemake ʻia ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo inā makemake ʻo ia i ka paʻa o ka naʻau me kahi kanaka āna i aloha maoli ai i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, e hoʻokō ʻo ia a hauʻoli i ka noho mālie me kēia kanaka e hele mai ana. ʻo ia ma ke ʻano he mea hoʻopiʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana a loaʻa iā ia ka ʻae ʻia e kona ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha ma muli o kona ʻano o ... ʻO kāna pono a me kona haipule, i hoʻohui ʻia i kona aloha iā ia, ka mea i kūpono iā ia no ka ʻae ʻia e nā mea a pau, wahi a Ibn Sirin. ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ke kaikamahine he hōʻike ia he mea kūpono loa kēia kanaka e leʻaleʻa i kāna aloha e mare iā ia a e hele pū ʻo ia me ka hauʻoli ma ka male ʻana iā ia.