He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hāpai?

 

ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka hānaiʻana i kahi keiki ma ka moeʻuhane e hoʻi pinepine i ka manaʻo o ka wahine,ʻo ka wahine hāpai. Ma muli o kona noʻonoʻo mau ʻana i kēia mau manawa e hāpai ai ʻo ia i kāna hānau hou nani, a hoʻomaka i kāna huakaʻi e mālama iā ia i ulu ʻo ia i mua o kona mau maka a hauʻoli ʻo ia i kāna mau manawa āpau me ia, a i kēia lā ke kamaʻilio nei mākou no ka ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moe a me ka helu ʻana i kona mau manaʻo e like me nā kikoʻī i hele mai me ia.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i ka wahine hāpai?

• Ina ua komo ka Makaula iloko ona mahina i hala, a e kokoke mai ana paha, alaila, e hoomakaukau oia no ka hookipa ana i kana keiki iloko o na la, a e hooponopono i na mea e pono ai ke keiki hou, me na lole a me na mea like, a o kekahi o na mea e pono ai, oia ka malama ana i na ma'i. , a kōkua i kona ulu ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā.
• Inā ʻo ia i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka hāpai ʻana, e loaʻa iā ia ke kālā nui i nā lā e hiki mai ana, a i ʻole e hoʻomaha i kekahi o nā ʻokoʻa ma waena ona a me kāna kāne.
• ʻO ka hānaiʻana i kahi keiki ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hāpai he hōʻailona ia o ka mea e kali nei i kēia keiki koʻikoʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
• Inā hānai ʻo ia iā ia, mālama nui ʻo ia i kona ʻohana a hāʻawi i ka mea aloha a me ka waiwai i mea e hāʻawi ai iā lākou i ka hauʻoli.
• Inā ʻoi aku ka nui o ke keiki ma mua o ka makahiki o ka hānai ʻana, a laila ʻaʻole maikaʻi ka ʻike ʻana iā ia e hānai ana. No ka mea, he mea hooweliweli i ke ola o kana keiki, a he mea pono iaia ke hahai aku me ke kauka kūikawā e ike i ke kulana a e ike i kahi o ka pilikia, a pela e loaa ai ka lapaau kupono e hoopakele ai i ke keiki.
• ʻO ka hōʻole ʻana o ke keiki ʻaʻole e hānai ʻia e ka Makaula, he hōʻailona ia o kona loaʻa ʻana i kekahi mau ʻeha i ka wā hāpai, a me kona manaʻo hopohopo no ka makaʻu i ke keiki.
• Inā hānai ʻoe i ka pēpē wahine, e kali ana ʻo ia i ka pēpē kāne (e makemake ke Akua).

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i ka wahine hāpai e Ibn Sirin

Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Ibn Sirin he mea maʻamau i ka wahine hāpai ke hoʻokau i kona noʻonoʻo me kāna keiki e hiki mai ana, no laila i kēia manawa e kokoke mai ana ʻo ia i ka manawa o ka hānau ʻana, ʻike pinepine ʻo ia i ke keiki hānau hou i loko o kāna mau moeʻuhane, a inā ʻike ʻo ia iā ia me kekahi mau kikoʻī. , hānau paha ʻo ia i ke keiki hoʻokahi me nā kikoʻī like āna i ʻike ai.

• Ua ʻōlelo pū ʻo ia ʻaʻole he hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi ka hānai ʻana i kekahi manawa, akā, ʻo ia hoʻi ke koi ʻia ka wahine e hana i kekahi mea a ua kāohi ʻia ʻo ia i ka noʻonoʻo a ʻaʻohe wahi e hoʻokō ai i kāna makemake.
• Akā inā e hoʻomākaukau ana ʻo ia no ka hānau keiki i kēia manawa, a laila, ʻo ka hānai ʻana he hōʻailona ia o kekahi pilikia i loaʻa iā ia ma ka hānau ʻana, akā e hauʻoli ʻo ia i ke olakino a maikaʻi hoʻi ma hope o ka hānau ʻana, a pono ʻo ia e hahai pono i nā ʻōlelo a ke kauka.
• Inā ʻike ʻo ia ʻaʻohe waiu i loko o kona umauma, a laila noho ʻo ia i kahi kūlana paʻakikī me ke kāne, akā naʻe ʻo ia e hoʻomanawanui a helu ʻia ma muli o kona aloha a pili iā ia, no ka mea, he kāne paʻakikī ʻo ia, ʻaʻole i hoʻokaʻawale i ka hoʻolako ʻana. ka mea hiki iaia ke dala no kona ohana.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i ka wahine hāpai, e like me ka Imam Al-Sadiq

• Ua ʻōlelo ka imam, ʻo ka wahine i hānai ʻole i ke keiki akā hoʻohana ʻo ia i kahi ala ʻē aʻe e hānai iā ia, ʻaʻole paʻa i kona ola me kāna kāne a manaʻo ʻo ia inā e hoʻi nā lā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e mare i kēia kāne.
• No ka hānai ʻana, he hōʻailona ia o ke aloha a me ka pilina ma waena o nā hoa ʻelua, a me ke ʻano o ia pilina i ke ola o nā keiki i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
• ʻO kāna apo ʻana i ke keiki i loko o kāna moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka nui o ka pono o ke aloha a me ke aloha, a me ka nui o kona minamina iā lākou i loko o kona ola me kāna kāne i kēia manawa, a he mea pono e loaʻa ka ʻōlelo pololei ma waena o nā kāne i mea e hiki ai i kā lāua kāne. pili i ka palekana.

ʻO nā wehewehe nui loa o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi pēpē hānai i ka moeʻuhane

ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānaiʻana i kahi keiki kāne ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hāpai

• ʻOkoʻa ka wehewehe ʻana o ka poʻe unuhi ʻōlelo i ka ʻike ʻana i ka wahine hāpai e hānai i ke keiki kāne. Wahi a kekahi o lakou, ua hai mua ia i ka hewa a me ka hopohopo nui e pilikia ai ka wahine a me kana kane, a me ka hoahu ana i na aie ma na poohiwi o ke kane.
• Ua ʻōlelo kekahi o lākou, ʻo ke kāne i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka paʻa a me ke kākoʻo i loaʻa i ke kāne a hiki iā ia ke kū i nā pilikia āna e kū nei, a pēlā e hiki ai ke hoʻokō i ka lako waiwai o kona ʻohana.
• Inā ʻike ka wahine hāpai i loko o kāna moeʻuhane e ʻapo ana ʻo ia i kahi keiki kāne, a laila pono ʻo ia e kākoʻo iā ia ma ke ʻano psychologically i kēia wā paʻakikī o ka hāpai ʻana āna e hele nei, i ʻole e hoʻomalu nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole iā ia a e hoʻopilikia i ka pēpē.
• Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pēpē nui akā makemake ʻo ia e hānai i ka umauma, aia kekahi mau ukana ʻē aʻe i hoʻohui ʻia i kāu mau ukana, a he paʻakikī ka hiki ke hāpai iā lākou a pau.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki wahine hāpai?

• Hōʻike ka wahine i ka moeʻuhane i ka maikaʻi o ke ola o ka mea ʻike a me kona hauʻoli i ke olakino a maikaʻi i ka wā hāpai a me ka hānau ʻana.
• Inā ʻike ʻo ia ua hauʻoli ʻo ia i ka hānai ʻana i ke kaikamahine liʻiliʻi, a laila kokoke ʻo ia e lohe i ka lono maikaʻi i kali lōʻihi ʻia.
• ʻO ka wahine uʻi he hōʻailona ia o ka pōmaikaʻi i loaʻa i ka Makaula a me kāna kāne, a loaʻa pinepine i ke kāne ka uku nui mai kāna hana a i ʻole ke komo ʻana i kahi papahana hou e loaʻa ai iā ia ka nui o ke kālā.
• Inā ʻike ʻo ia i ke kāne o ka pēpē a ʻike ʻo ia he kāne, a ʻike naʻe ʻo ia e hānai ana i kahi kaikamahine ʻōpio, a laila he ʻano maikaʻi kāna pēpē.
• Inā ʻike ʻo ia i kahi keiki ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka makahiki o ka hānai ʻana, a laila ua pilikia kāna pēpē i kekahi ʻano pilikia, a pono ʻo ia e mālama pono iā ia iho.
• Inā loaʻa nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa male, e hoʻopau koke lākou a e hoʻoponopono ʻia nā mea ma waena o nā kāne.
• ʻO ka hānai ʻana i ka wahine e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻokō ʻana i kahi pahuhopu i ʻimi nui ʻia e ka mea hihiʻo.
• Akā, inā he mau pilikia ma waena ona a me kekahi lālā o ka ʻohana o ke kāne, a ulu ka hihia ma waena o lāua a hiki i ka hopena maikaʻi ʻole i kona pilina me kāna kāne, a laila aia kahi ʻaelike pili ma waena o lāua.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi pēpē no ka wahine hāpai

• He hōʻailona maʻamau ka hānai ʻana i kona olakino maikaʻi a ke holo maikaʻi nei ka hāpai ʻana.
• Inā ʻaʻohe makemake o ka wahine e hāpai ma muli o nā pilikia male, a laila ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kāna hānai ʻana i kahi keiki hou he hōʻailona ia o ka mālie psychological e hoʻomalu nei iā ia i kēia mau lā, a me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kāna pilina me kāna kāne.
• Ua ʻōlelo kekahi poʻe haʻi ʻōlelo he hōʻailona ka hānai ʻana i ka nui o ke kālā mai kahi hoʻoilina āu i manaʻo ʻole ai.
• ʻO ka hāʻule ʻana o ka waiū mai ka umauma mai, he hōʻailona ia o ka hāʻawi palena ʻole o ka mea hihiʻo, a me kāna mea e hana ai no ka hauʻoli o kāna kāne, akā, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e haʻalele i kāna mau pono a me nā kuleana o kāna mau keiki ʻē aʻe inā he mau keiki kā lāua.
• Inā ʻo kāna hāpai mua ʻana a ʻaʻole mākaukau ʻo ia e lilo i makuahine a mālama i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi, a laila hōʻike ka moeʻuhane iā ia e hiki iā ia ke mālama i ke keiki hānau hou a lilo i makuahine kūpono me kona mau manaʻo maikaʻi a pau.
• ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi keiki ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu ma hope o ka hānai ʻana he hōʻailona ia o kona hōʻike ʻana i ke ʻano like ʻole o kona mau manaʻo i kekahi poʻe, e hōʻoluʻolu wale i kāna kāne, a no laila ua kau ʻia ʻo ia ma lalo o ke koʻikoʻi noʻonoʻo e hoʻopilikia ai i kona olakino i ka wā lōʻihi.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki ma waho o kaʻu keiki no ka wahine hāpai?

Aia nā wāhine i hikiʻole ke hoʻomanawanui i ka uēʻana o kahi keiki pōloli, ināʻaʻoleʻo kāna keiki, akā,ʻo ka manaʻo makuahine a me ka palupalu o ka puʻuwai e hōʻike ana iā ia, makemakeʻo ia e māʻona i ka pōloli o ke keiki a hānai iā ia.

• Ina ua pilikia oia i ka wa o kona hapai ana a ua pilikia paha kana keiki i ka mai a me ke kino, alaila, he olelo maikai kana moeuhane iaia, e hoemi mai ke Akua i kana olelo hooholo i uku no kona oluolu o ka naau.
• Ua ʻōlelo ʻia hoʻi he hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole ia e ʻaihue ʻia ʻo ia e kahi malihini, a e lilo ka nui o kāna mau kālā a me kāna mau waiwai.
• Inā he nani kēia keiki, e loaʻa iā ia kahi keiki e like me ia, a ʻaʻole e pilikia nui ka hānau ʻana, akā ʻoi aku ka maʻamau a me ka maʻalahi ma mua o kāna i manaʻo ai.
• Hōʻike kāna ʻike i kona pilina pili me nā mea a pau e pili ana iā ia, a hiki i kahi o lākou i hāʻawi iā ia i kāna keiki pēpē, me ka ʻike ua waiho ʻo ia iā ia i nā lima palekana e mālama a mālama pono iā ia.

Aia ka pauku ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane ma kahi pūnaewele ʻAigupita Mai Google mai, nui nā wehewehe a me nā nīnau mai ka poʻe hahai.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi pēpē uē no ka wahine hāpai

• Inā e uē ke keiki me ka leo mālie, a laila e hoʻopōmaikaʻi ke Akua iā ia i kahi keiki mālie, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻopilikia hou iā ia, ʻoi aku hoʻi i nā wā mua o kona ola ʻana, no laila ʻaʻole pilikia ʻo ia e hana. me ia inā ʻo ia ka manawa mua i hānau ai.
• ʻO kāna uē ikaika ʻole me ka hoʻomaha ʻole, e hōʻike ana kēia i nā pōʻino āna e hele nei i loko o kona ola, a ʻo ka pinepine o nā pilikia e hoʻopuni ana iā ia mai kēlā me kēia ʻaoʻao, a pono ʻo ia e hōʻike i ka ʻuhane hoʻomanawanui i mea e hele ai i kēia pae me ka maluhia.
• Ke hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaha i ke keiki, he hōʻailona ia o kona hiki ke hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia me ka mālie me ka ʻole o ka manaʻo, ʻoiai he ʻano maʻemaʻe ʻo ia i kona noʻonoʻo a me kāna hana ʻana me nā mea ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e ʻimi i nā pilikia, akā hoʻoikaika. e ʻimi i nā hoʻonā radical iā lākou.
• Ina na kana keiki e uwe ana, aia no he ulia liilii e ike koke ia ai, aole nae e hoopilikia nui ia, aka, e lilo ana ia i mea hoolaha no ka malama ana i kona ola kino. a me ke ola kino o kana keiki.

Ua moe au e hānai ana au i kahi wahine hāpai ʻōpio

• Hōʻike ka moeʻuhane i ka ʻiʻini o ka Makaula e hāpai i kāna keiki ma kona mau lima a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi me ia, a ʻo kāna moeʻuhane e nānā ana ʻo ia iā ia oiai ʻo ia e hānai ana iā ia, he hōʻailona ia aia kekahi mea e pono ai kāna kōkua. ʻAʻole ʻo ia ʻoʻoleʻa i kāna kālā a i ʻole ka ʻōlelo aʻo e like me ka mea e pono ai kēia kanaka.
• ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānaiʻana i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi no ka wahine hāpai e hōʻike ana ua halaʻo ia i ka wā hāpai me ka pilikiaʻole o ka'ōpū.
• Inā ʻaiʻē ʻo ia i kekahi kālā, hiki iā ia ke hoʻokaʻa i kāna mau ʻaiʻē a pau, a pēlā ʻo ia e hauʻoli ai i ka maluhia o ka noʻonoʻo a me ka maluhia o ka naʻau ma hope o kona hoʻokō ʻana i nā hopohopo ʻaiʻē nona iho.
• Inā ʻaʻole e hoʻokō pono ke kāne i kāna mau kuleana i kāna wahine a me kona home, a hāʻule pū me ia i nā manaʻo a me nā lilo, ʻo kēia mau mea a pau e manaʻo ai ʻo ia i ka makemake nui i nā manaʻo hou āna e hoʻouna aku ai i kāna keiki ma ke ʻano he makuahine.
• Inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia he keiki nāna, aia paha e loaʻa iā ia kekahi mea nāna e hoʻopio iā ia a hoʻāʻo e loaʻa i ke kālā mai iā ia no ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ka mālama ʻana i kekahi o nā mea huna āna i ʻike ai e pili ana iā ia, a ua makemake ʻo ia e hūnā. akā, inā hāʻawi ʻo ia iā ia a hāʻawi iā ia, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻokaʻulua e noi hou aku iā ia ma hope, a ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo wale nō ka hopena iā ia iho, a me ka poʻe hopohopo e ʻike lākou i kāna mea huna i hiki ai iā ia ke hana. ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻoweliweli iā ia me ka hōʻike ʻana ma hope o kēlā.
• Ke ʻike ka wahine hāpai i kāna hānai ʻana i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi ma ka moeʻuhane, a ʻaʻole i kakahiaka nui no ka hānau ʻana, ʻike ʻo ia i ka paʻa ʻana o kona umauma, no laila makemake ʻo ia e haʻalele i ka honua waho a noho kaʻawale no kekahi manawa. .
• Inā ʻike ʻo ia e hānai ana ʻo ia i ke keiki i kona hānau ʻana, a laila, hōʻike kāna moeʻuhane ua hoʻokō pono ʻo ia i kāna mau kuleana a pau, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia e ʻae iā ia iho i kahi manawa e hoʻomaha ai i kāna mau hana, akā mālama pono ʻo ia. ʻO nā mea kiko'ī a pau o ke kāne a me nā keiki, ināʻo ia i loko o ke kūlana olakino i kōkuaʻole iā ia ma ia mea.

He aha ka wehewehe o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i ka wahine hāpai me ka waiū?

• ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi keiki ʻōpio ʻaʻole i hiki i ʻelua makahiki e hānai ana a inu i ka waiu o ka wahine hāpai ma kāna moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona ia o ke olakino maikaʻi no ka makuahine a me ke keiki ma hope o ka hānau ʻana.
• ʻO ka nui o ka waiū ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻaʻole i ʻae ka poʻe naʻauao he hōʻike ia i ka maikaʻi, akā ua ʻae ka hapa nui o lākou he hōʻailona ia o ka poho a me ka poho, no laila, ʻike ʻo ia i ka hoʻololi ʻana mai kekahi umauma a i kekahi a hoʻoheheʻe ʻia mai nā mea ʻelua. e hōʻike ana ua lilo ʻo ia i ka nui o ke kālā a hiki ke komo i kahi papahana hāʻule i uku nui ʻia a loaʻa ʻole mai ia mea.
• Inā ʻike ʻo ia e hānai ana ʻo ia iā ia mai ka umauma hoʻokahi, a ʻo ia ka hema o lākou, ʻo ia hoʻi ka maikaʻi o kona puʻuwai a me ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka maikaʻi i kāna mau keiki ma hope o ia, a e hōʻike ana hoʻi i ka nui o ka palupalu i piha i kona puʻuwai. a na kana kane a me na keiki.
• Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Ibn Sirin ʻaʻole mahalo ʻia ka moeʻuhane o ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki koe wale nō ma ka moeʻuhane o ka wahine hāpai wale nō, no ka mea, noʻonoʻo nui ʻo ia i kēia mau manawa, a ʻo kāna hānai ʻana i kāna keiki he hōʻike ia o kona palekana a me ka hauʻoli o kāna keiki hānau piha. olakino a maikaʻi.
• Ua ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ka waiū maʻemaʻe e hōʻike ana i ke ʻano maikaʻi o ke keiki i loaʻa iā ia mai kona makuahine i nā makahiki o kona hānai ʻana.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi pēpē ʻakaʻaka i ka wahine hāpai?

ʻO ka minoʻaka o ke keiki ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka manaʻolana hou iʻikeʻia i loko o ke ola o ka wahine hāpai, a he nui nā mea kiko'ī e like me ka unuhiʻana o ka minoʻaka. ʻO ka ʻeha nui i ka wā hāpai, a laila ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ke keiki e ʻakaʻaka ana i ka wā e hānai ai iā ia he hōʻailona ia ua pau kēia mau mea a ua komo ʻo ia. e kali ana i ke keiki e hiki mai ana, a na ka makuahine e hanai iaia me ka pono a me ka waiwai maikai, aka, ina he elemakule iki oia a he kupono ole iaia ke hanai i ka waiu i keia mau makahiki, aka e minoaka ana nae oia i ka makaula, a laila, aia kekahi mea inaina iā ia, makemake nui iā ia e pōʻino, a ke ʻimi nei paha iā ia me ka ʻike ʻole.

He aha ka wehewehe o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i ka wahine hāpai me ka waiū ʻole?

Ua ʻōlelo ʻia ma ka wehewehe ʻana o kēia hihiʻo, he hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole ia no ka mea nona, ʻoiai ua pilikia ʻo ia i ke kālā a me ka nele o ke kālā, ʻoi aku ka nui o kāna mea e pono ai, e like me nā lilo hānau keiki, nā lole no ke keiki hānau hou, a me nā mea e pono ai no ka keia pae hou. Ina e hoao ka wahine e hamau i ke keiki, aole nae he waiu e hoomaha ai a maona ia ia, a nolaila, aole ia i hooki i ka uwe ana, alaila, he hakaka oia ma ke ano, a he nui kana hana no kana kane. a kokua iaia e hoopau i kona mau pilikia piliwaiwai, aka, aole nae i loaa iaia e hooiaio ana i ke aloha, aka, ua maopopo iaia kona kumakaia iaia mahope o na mea a pau ana i hana'i. loaʻa iā ia kekahi mea e hāʻawi aku i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o kekahi mau haʻalulu i kēia manawa.

He aha inā wau e moeʻuhane e hānai au i kaʻu keiki i koʻu wā hāpai?

ʻO ka wahine e hānai ana i kāna keiki i hānau ʻole ʻia i loko o kāna mau moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka nui o ka wikiwiki a ka mea moeʻuhane a hiki i ka loaʻa ʻana o kāna keiki liʻiliʻi ma kona mau lima. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kēia moeʻuhane a kaumaha ʻo ia i ka nalowale ʻana o ka makuahine a makua kāne paha, he hōʻailona ia o ka nalo ʻana iā ia. ka hopohopo a me nā pilikia o ka naʻau i loaʻa iā ia. Inā ʻike ʻo ia i kahi keiki uʻi kupaianaha, a laila e hala kona hāpai ʻana me ka maluhia a e hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻia ʻo ia me kahi keiki e like me ia a e hauʻoli ai kona puʻuwai a me ka hopena o nā hanana maikaʻi ʻole āna i hana ai. e emi ana ka ike nona.