ʻO ka lauoho ka lei o ka wahine, makemake paha kekahi mau wahine i ka lōʻihi a makemake kekahi e ʻoki a pōkole, e like me ke ʻano, a i kēia lā e kamaʻāina mākou i ka wehewehe ʻana i ka hihiʻo o ka ʻoki lauoho lōʻihi e like me ka mea a ka lauoho. ua hiki mai ka poe akamai i ka wehewehe, he okoa no ka like ole o ka noho male ana o ka wahine, ina he kane a hemo paha.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻoki lauoho lōʻihi
- ʻO ka wahine iʻike i kona lauoho lōʻihi ma ka moeʻuhane, ināʻaʻoleʻo ia ma kaʻoiaʻiʻo, e loaʻa iā ia ka maikaʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana; ʻO ka ʻike ʻana iā ia he hōʻike ia o ke ola ʻana a me ka pōmaikaʻi.
- Ina o ke kanaka ka hihio, a ike oia i kona oki ana i kona lauoho, e lilo ana ka nui o kona mana a me kona waiwai, ina oia ka mea nona ke aupuni a me ka hanohano.
- ʻO kāna moʻolelo kūʻē i ka manaʻo o ka Makaula, he mea hōʻike paha ia i hoʻopōʻino ʻia ʻo ia a i hoʻolālā ʻia paha e kekahi poʻe hoʻokamani.
- Inā ʻoki ʻia ka lauoho o kahi kaikamahine a hehi ʻia ma lalo o kona mau wāwae, a laila e ʻeha pinepine ʻo ia i ka hāʻule ʻole o kona ʻike naʻau, a hiki ke kaumaha a kaumaha.
- ʻOiai ua manaʻo ʻia ʻo ka ʻoki lauoho he hihiʻo maikaʻi ʻole, ʻo kona lōʻihi i hoʻonui ʻia e hōʻike ana i nā ʻano maikaʻi ʻole o ka mea hihiʻo a me ke ʻano kaulana ʻole o kēlā me kēia kanaka.
- Inā pili mākou i ka lauoho loloa i ke olakino; No ka lōʻihi o ka lauoho o ka Makaula, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kona ola kino a me ka maikaʻi, ʻo kona pōkole ʻana, he mea hōʻike ia e loaʻa ana ka maʻi maʻi iā ia i ka wā e hiki mai ana, a pono ʻo ia e makaʻala nui i ka ʻai ʻana i nā meaʻai olakino. a kaawale i ka mea e poino ai.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻoki ʻana i ka lauoho lōʻihi e Ibn Sirin
- Ua ʻōlelo ka imam, ʻo ke kaikamahine i ʻike i ka ʻoki ʻia ʻana o kona lauoho ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia ka mea e noho nei me ka hopohopo nui a me ke kaumaha, a ʻo ke kumu o ke kaumaha ma muli paha o kona hilinaʻi ʻole iā ia iho, a i ʻole kona manaʻo. ʻaʻole makemake ʻia ʻo ia no ka lohi o kāna male ʻana.
- Inā ʻeha ʻo ia e kekahi ma mua, hiki i ke kaikamahine ke manaʻo e hoʻokaʻawale iā ia iho mai nā kānaka i mea e pale aku ai iā lākou.
- Ina ike ka Makaula ua pokole kona lauoho i ka loihi maoli, alaila, e poino nui ana oia, a i ole ia, e poho paha kona kulana ke paa ia i kekahi kulana.
- Loaʻa paha nā pōmaikaʻi o ka hihiʻo, ʻo ia ke ʻoki ʻana i ka lauoho o kahi mea āna i ʻike ai a aloha ai, ʻoiai he hōʻailona ia o kāna male ʻana iā ia a me ka hauʻoli e kali ana iā ia i ka noho ʻana me ia.
- Ina o ka oki ana no ka nani o ka wahine, alaila, makemake oia e noho maikai aku mamua o ka mua, a e hiki no iaia ke hana pela i ka wa e hiki mai ana.
ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kaʻokiʻana i ka lauoho lōʻihi no nā wāhine hoʻokahi
- He puʻuwai palupalu paha kahi kaikamahine i hiki ʻole ke alo i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia i loaʻa iā ia i loko o kona ola, no laila ʻo ka ʻike ʻana iā ia he hōʻailona ia o kona makemake ʻole e hoʻololi i ke ʻano o kona ola.
- ʻAʻole maikaʻi kekahi o nā hihiʻo i ka wahine hoʻokahi, ke ʻole ʻo kāna ipo ka mea nāna e haʻi aku iā ia.
- Inā ʻoki ʻo ia i kona lauoho ponoʻī a me ke ʻano kaumaha, a laila ua loaʻa ʻo ia i ke kaumaha nui no ka loaʻa ʻole o ke kāne kūpono.
- Akā inā nānā ʻo ia i ka nani ma hope o ka ʻoki ʻana, a laila ke hoʻololi nei ʻo ia i kona ola no ka maikaʻi, a hiki paha iā ia ke hele i ka hana e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kona psyche ma mua.
- ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi hoaaloha e ʻoki ana i kona lauoho, he hōʻailona ia o ka hoʻokamani o kēia hoaaloha, a ke hūnā nei ʻo ia i ka inaina iā ia e makemake ai ʻo ia e pōʻino.
- ʻO ka ʻoki ʻana i ka lauoho lōʻihi o ka wahine hoʻokahi ma ka moeʻuhane ma ka lima o kahi malihini, he hōʻike ia o kona hauʻoli iā ia iho a me kona makemake nui e hoʻololi i kekahi o kona mau ʻano, i hiki ai iā ia ke hauʻoli i ke aloha o nā kānaka nona a ʻaʻole e pale aku iā ia. .
- ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻoki ʻana i ka lauoho lōʻihi no ke kaikamahine, inā he mau makahiki kula ʻo ia, a laila hiki iā ia ke ʻike i ka emi ʻana o kāna pae kula no nā kumu ma waho o kona mana.
- Ina e oki ke kaikamahine i ka lauoho o kekahi kaikamahine, ua inaina ia iloko o kona naau i kela kaikamahine, a he paio paha ma ka hana a ma ke ao ana paha.
- Hiki i ka wahine hoʻokahi ke nalowale i kahi kanaka pili i kona puʻuwai ke ʻike ʻo ia i kēia hihiʻo, ʻo ia hoʻi ka hōʻike ʻana i kekahi maʻi e hoʻopilikia iā ia, akā e ola ʻo ia mai ia mea ʻaʻole i liʻuliʻu.
- Akā, inā lōʻihi kona lauoho, akā, ʻike ʻo ia he pōkole, aia paha kekahi e manaʻo kūʻē iā ia, a ʻo ka mea pōʻino e hāʻule ʻo ia i loko, no laila pono ʻo ia e puʻuhonua i ka wā e hiki mai ana me kona kaikunāne a ʻaʻole e hūnā iā ia. mea huna mai ia lakou i hiki ai ia lakou ke kokua iaia.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻoki lauoho lōʻihi
- Ina i ike ke kaikamahine i hoopalau e oki i kona lauoho, aole nae oia i aa e hana pela, alaila, aole oia makemake e hoopau i kana hoopalau me keia kanaka opio, aka, o kona ohana ka mea e ku nei i ke ala o ka hoopau ana i ka hoopalau.
- Ke ʻike ʻo ia ua hāʻule ka hapa nui o kona lauoho mai kona mau lima i ka wā e hoʻolima ai, e hele ana ʻo ia i kahi pilikia nui o kona ola, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke loaʻa kekahi e kōkua iā ia e hoʻopau iā ia.
- ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kāne male ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka pilina maikaʻi ʻole ma waena o nā kāne ʻelua, a ʻaʻohe kūlike ma waena o lāua.
- ʻO ka hapa nui o ka mea ʻike makaʻu i ka nele o ke kuʻikahi ma waena ona a me kona makemake e lawe mai i nā loli radical i kona ola.
- Ina o ka aha hoopalau ia a ike iho la ua oi aku ka pokole o kona lauoho mamua o ka manawa, alaila, aole e loaa iaia ka hauoli me keia kanaka, a e noonoo hou oia mamua o kona komo ana i ke kahua o ka aelike mare a me ka mare.
- ʻO ke kaikamahine nona ka lauoho maʻemaʻe a me ke kuʻi ʻole, ʻoiaʻiʻo, paʻa ka manaʻo a aloha ʻia e nā mea a pau, ʻoiai ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kāna ʻoki ʻana, he hōʻike ia o ka nui o nā pilikia e hoʻopilikia i kona ola.
- ʻO ka ʻike ʻana iā ia he hōʻailona paha ia o kahi pilikia e keʻakeʻa nei i ka paʻa o kona ola me kēia kanaka, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi iā ia e hoʻōki i kāna hoʻopaʻa ʻana me ia inā kānalua ʻo ia i kāna mau ʻano kino.
He moeʻuhane huikau kāu. He aha kāu e kali nei? Huli ma Google no kahi pūnaewele wehewehe moe ʻAigupita.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻoki ʻana i nā wēlau o ka lauoho lōʻihi
ʻAʻole lawe kēia ʻike i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e like me ke ʻoki ʻana i nā lauoho āpau, akā hōʻike paha ia i nā manaʻo maikaʻi aʻe. ʻO ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoki ka wahine i nā wēlau o kona lauoho i hiki ai ke ulu lōʻihi a hoʻopau i nā ʻāpana i loaʻa i ka lauoho.
- ʻO ka hihiʻo o ka wahine e hānau ana he hōʻike ia e hoʻopau ʻo ia i kāna mau pilikia i loaʻa iā ia i ka wā ma mua, a e hauʻoli ʻo ia me kāna pēpē i ke olakino a maikaʻi.
- ʻO ka wahine male, hana ʻo ia i ka mea maikaʻi loa e mālama i kona ʻohana, a hana i nā ʻālana a me nā ʻae ʻana i hiki iā ia ke hoʻopau i kona ola male ʻana.
- No ke kaikamahine o ke kula, ua hemahema paha ia i ke aʻo ʻana i ka wā ma mua, akā hoʻi ʻo ia a hoʻonui hou i kāna mau hoʻoikaika ʻana i mea e lanakila ai e like me kona makemake.
- Hiki i nā wēlau o ka lauoho lōʻihi ke hōʻike i ke kaumaha a me ka ʻeha o ka wahine ke hana ʻole ʻo ia i kekahi mau pilina pili kanaka, akā hiki iā ia ke haʻalele i kēia mau ʻeha, hoʻomaikaʻi i kona noʻonoʻo, a hoʻi i kona ola maʻamau.
- Ua ʻōlelo ʻia inā ʻike ka mea ʻilihune i kēia hihiʻo, e loli ana kona ola no ka maikaʻi, a e loaʻa iā ia ka nui o ke kālā, inā he hoʻoilina e hoʻoili ʻia iā ia, a i ʻole he papahana holomua āna e holo ai.
- Ināʻike ka wahine i kona mau hemahema, e pili ana i kona pilina me nā mea'ē aʻe, a lailaʻikeʻo ia ma ka moeʻuhane eʻoki anaʻo ia i ka hopena o kona lauoho, a laila e ho'āʻoʻo ia e kāpae i nāʻano maikaʻiʻole, a hoʻololi iā lākou me nā mea'ē aʻe. i aloha ai na kanaka.
- Hōʻike ka hihiʻo ua huikau ka mea hihiʻo i nā mea, a ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hoʻoponopono iā lākou, akā e hoʻoponopono ʻo ia i kēia kuhi hewa a hoʻoponopono i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
- He pili pili loa ko ka poema me ke poo a me ka manao i komo iloko o ka manao o ka Makaula, a o ke oki ana paha e hoike mai ana ua nee kona manao mai kana olelo hooholo i hala aku nei a i kekahi olelo hooholo i maopopo i keia manawa. .
- ʻO ke kaikamahine i loaʻa i kahi pilikia haʻahaʻa i loko o kona ola no ka nele o ka poʻe makemake e mare iā ia, a me kona manaʻo mau ʻo ia ka liʻiliʻi ma mua o nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe, e hele ʻo ia ma kahi ʻaoʻao o kona ola a ʻaʻole e uku. ka nānā ʻana i ka pili pili a me ka male ma hope o kēlā. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, ʻike ʻo ia i nā makemake ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi nona a e hoʻokō ʻo ia i kāna mau pahuhopu hou a e hui hou ʻia me ia iho.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻoki ʻana i ka lauoho lōʻihi i ka pōkole
Hiki i ka hihiʻo ke lawe i nā manaʻo like ʻole i ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi.
Nā pōmaikaʻi o ka ʻike ʻana:
- Ua olelo mai kekahi poe akamai i ka wehewehe, o ke kanaka i kaumaha i ka aie a me ka nui o ka hopohopo i kona ola ana, e hoopau ia ia mau mea, a e loaa ia ia ke dala e pau ai kana aie a lawa ia ia a me kona ohana.
- Ina ua molowa ka Makaula i ka hana ana i kana mau hana, a hiki i ka mea i hooweliweli aku ai kona luna ia ia e hoopau i kana hana, alaila, e maikai koke ana kona kulana, a e hooikaika oia i oi aku mamua o ka mua, a e hoopau i ka hoopaapaa mawaena ona a me ka poe. luna hoʻomalu.
- ʻO ke kanaka ʻōpio male ʻole, inā he lauoho lōʻihi kona ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā ma ka moeʻuhane ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ia he pōkole, a laila he hōʻailona kēia e loaʻa iā ia kahi kaikamahine maikaʻi me ka maikaʻi maikaʻi, a e mare ʻo ia iā ia a hauʻoli i kona ola. me ia.
- ʻO ka lauoho pōkole, inā he nani a kūpono i ka helehelena o ka mea nāna e nānā, a laila e hui pū ʻia me ke kanaka e like me ia a kūpono hoʻi me ia ma ke ʻano a me ka pono, inā he hoʻokahi ka mea nānā.
- Aka, ina he wahine mare ka Makaula, noho oia me ka maluhia a me ke kuikahi me kana kane, a ua hiki iaia ke lanakila i na pilikia a pau ana e alo nei.
- E hōʻike ana paha ka hihiʻo i ka makemake o ka mea moeʻuhane e hoʻololi i ke kahua āna e hana ai, a hiki iā ia ke pilikia i ka wā mua i ka poho, akā loaʻa koke iā ia ka waiwai nui a maopopo i kona holomua.
- ʻO kekahi o nā mea maikaʻi o kēia moeʻuhane, ʻo ia ka mea nāna i ʻike i kekahi mau manaʻo āna i manaʻo mua ai he pololei, akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua ʻike ʻo ia i ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, a e hoʻololi ʻo ia i kāna mau manaʻoʻiʻo a hoʻomaikaʻi i kāna ʻano i ka wā e hiki mai ana ma ke ʻano ʻaʻole. kue i ka ahahui i noho ai.
Nā pōʻino o ka ʻike:
- ʻO ka mea i ʻike ma ka moeʻuhane e hoʻololi ana kona ʻenemi i kona lauoho loloa i pōkole, a laila ʻoiaʻiʻo ua lanakila ʻo ia iā ia a hoʻopilikia iā ia.
- Inā ʻike ʻia ka lauoho ma kahi ʻano ʻino, ʻaʻole like me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, a laila he hōʻike ia o nā keʻakeʻa i ʻike ʻia e ka Makaula ma kona ala, he mea paʻakikī iā ia ke hoʻokō i kāna mau makemake.
- Inā ʻike ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane he lōʻihi kekahi o kona lauoho a ʻoi aku ka pōkole o nā mea ʻē aʻe, a laila he hōʻike kēia e lawe ana ka mea nānā i nā ʻano kūʻē i kona ʻano, a he hoʻokamani paha a hūnā i ka inaina i ka poʻe e puni ana iā ia. , oiai oia e hoike mai ana ia lakou i ka lokomaikai a me ke aloha.
- ʻO ka hihiʻo paha ka manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻike ka mea nona nā pōmaikaʻi a ke Akua i hāʻawi mai ai iā ia, a ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia no kāna mau pōmaikaʻi. Akā, hoʻokomo ʻo ia i ka hoʻolohe ʻole a me ka hewa ma mua o ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana a me ka māʻona i nā mea a ke Akua i hāʻawi mai ai iā ia.
- Ina he waiwai maoli ka mea moeuhane, e loaa ana ia ia ka poino nui, a lilo paha kona waiwai a lilo paha ma na mea liilii.
He aha ka wehewehe o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻoki ʻana i ka lauoho lōʻihi no ka wahine hāpai?
Ināʻike ka wahine hāpai i ka lōʻihi a me ka nani o kona lauoho, e loaʻa iā ia kahi hānau hānau maʻamau, akā, ināʻikeʻo ia uaʻokiʻokiʻo ia, hiki iā ia ke loaʻa kekahi mauʻeha a me kaʻeha i kona wā hāpai, akā me kona nānā a hahai. -me kona kauka pilikino, e hoʻomaikaʻi ʻia kona ola kino, a e hoʻopakele ʻia kona ola a me ke ola o kāna keiki Inā ʻoki ke kāne i ka lauoho o kāna wahine, e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kāna hana ʻana iā ia o kona ola kino, aole nae e hookaumaha ia ia i na mea e hiki ai iaia ke hoomanawanui.
Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻo kāna hāpai mua ʻana, manaʻo nui paha ʻo ia i ke kokoke ʻana o ka lā hānau, akā me ka hoʻohiki ʻana, e holo maikaʻi ana ka hāpai ʻana a hānau ʻo ia i kahi keiki olakino, ʻaʻohe maʻi e lilo i ohia o kona maka, i kokua ma keia ao, a i keiki pono nana e pule no laua mahope o ko laua make ana, ina ua ola ka wahine. e hoopaapaa nui me ia.
ʻO nā kumu e pili ana i ke kālā a me ka hikiʻole o ke kāne ke hoʻokō i nā kuleana o ka home, akā, ināʻike ka wahine hāpai i ka lōʻihi a me ka palupalu o kona lauoho a wehewehe i ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli, he hōʻailona ia. e hanau i ke kaikamahine, a e lawe ia i na ano o na hiohiona nani a me ka pono Ina ike oia he pokole kona lauoho, e loli paha kona waihooluu i ke kala i makemake ole ia ia a me ka ohana o ke kane, a pilikia no hoi ke kane ma ka hana.
He aha ka wehewehe o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻoki ʻana i ka lauoho lōʻihi no ka wahine male?
ʻIke ka wahine male e paʻa ana ʻo ia i ka ʻokiʻoki a ʻokiʻoki i kona lauoho ma ka moeʻuhane, akā ke kaumaha nei ʻo ia i ke ʻano o ke kaumaha ma muli o nā pilikia ʻohana ma waena ona a me ka ʻohana o kāna kāne, akā e kaumaha ʻo ia a hoʻopaʻapaʻa. ma na mea he nui a hiki i ka malie ana o kona ola a noho iho me kana kane, aka, o keia mea, he mea ia e pilikia nui ai kona noonoo no kekahi manawa, ina e hai mai ke kane iaia i kekahi moolelo a maikai ole kona nanaina, alaila he kanaka kupono ole ke mare iaia, a he noho poino kona noho pu ana me ia no kona hana ino ia ia a me kona hoihoi ole i kona mau manao Oiai ua haawi mai oia i ka mea makamae a me ka waiwai no ka malama ana i kona ola mare ʻaʻole mahalo i nā mea a pau āna e hana ai no ia.
No kona ike ana o kona makuahine ka mea nana e oki lauoho nona, he hoike keia no kona makemake e haalele i kana kane a oki mare, aka, ua pilikia oia i ka hooikaika nui ana a kona makuahine a hiki i kona hoomanawanui ana i ka hana ino a me ka hana ino. ua hoomanawanui i kona kulana ino me ia, ina nae he lauoho loloa a palupalu kona i ka oiaio, a ike oia e oki ana i loko o ka moeuhane, ua pilikia oia i ka pilikia a me ka haunaele no ka hoolohe ole o kana mau keiki iaia. manaʻolana ʻo ia e kōkua kāna kāne iā ia e hānai iā lāua, akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ia wale nō ka manaʻo iā ia iho a me kona mau kūlana pilikino, ʻo ia ka mea i ʻoi aku ka nui o kāna hānau ʻana ma mua o kāna hiki ke hoʻomanawanui, a manaʻo ʻo ia ua pālua ʻia kona mau makahiki, a ua manaʻo ʻo ia i ka nele loa.
Hiki i ka hihio ke hōʻike i ke kūlana kālā o ke kāne, a ke pilikia nei ʻo ia i kēia manawa i ka pilikia kālā nui a makemake ʻo ia i mea e kōkua iā ia e hoʻopau i kāna mau aie, a ʻo ka wahine ka mea e kū kokoke ana i kāna kāne a kākoʻo iā ia me ka ikaika a pau. a me ke kālā i loaʻa iā ia, ua ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kona ʻoki ʻana i kona lauoho a hoʻopuehu ʻia ma ka ʻāina e hōʻike ana i kahi poho nui e alo ai, inā ma ke kālā a i ʻole ka poʻe, ʻo kekahi o nā mea maikaʻi o kēia hihiʻo ka nānā ʻana o ka wahine i loko ona. ʻO ke aniani a ʻike ʻo ia ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kona helehelena ma mua o ka wā ma hope o ka ʻoki ʻana i kona lauoho. e nalowale ana.
Ua ʻōlelo kekahi poʻe akamai unuhi ʻōlelo ʻo ke ʻoki lauoho he ʻano hou o kona ola a e hāpai koke ana ʻo ia inā makemake ʻo ia e hāpai, akā naʻe, inā ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia i kāna mau keiki, a laila e neʻe ʻo ia mai kahi hale i kekahi i ʻoi aku ka nani ma mua o kāna i noho ai i ka wā ma mua.
