He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki kāne no ka wahine mare iā Ibn Sirin?

 

Ua ʻike ʻia he mea koʻikoʻi ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki, ʻoiai ʻo ia wale nō ke kumu o ka hānai ʻana a me ka ulu ʻana o ko lākou kino, a ʻoiai he wā paʻakikī kēia o ka noho ʻana o ka wahine, hauʻoli ʻo ia ke ʻike i kāna keiki e ulu ana i mua. ʻO ia ka mea e ʻike ai i kā mākou ʻatikala i kēia lā, akā ʻokoʻa ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kāne hānai i ka wahine male i ka wahine hoʻokahi a hāpai paha i ka moeʻuhane.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki kāne no ka wahine male?

• ʻO ka nui o ka waiū he hōʻailona ia o ka nui o ka maikaʻi o kona noho ʻana a ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hālāwai me nā pilikia a me nā pilikia i loko o kona ola, no laila, ua manaʻo ʻia kēia hihiʻo ʻo ia kekahi o nā moeʻuhane hauʻoli loa, e hōʻike ana hoʻi i ka piʻi ʻana o kāna kālā a ola.
• Inā ʻike ʻo ia e hānai ʻia kāna keiki e kekahi wahine ʻē aʻe, ʻo ia hoʻi, ua hoʻopunipuni kāna kāne iā ia me ka pale ʻole iā ia e like me kāna i manaʻo ai, no laila pono ʻo ia e hoʻolohe i kāna hana, a inā ʻaʻole e hoʻopau ʻo ia, pono e lawe i kekahi ola hou e uku aku iaia no na mea a pau ana i noho pu ai me ia.
• Ināʻikeʻo ia e pale ana i kāna keiki mai ka hānaiʻana,ʻo ia hoʻi, eʻikeʻiaʻo ia i kekahi mau pilikia olakino e pili ana i kona psyche, no ka mea hikiʻole iā ia ke hana i kona ola i kēlā me kēia lā e like me ka wā ma mua.
• ʻO ka hānai ʻana i ka pēpē me ka wikiwiki, ʻo ia ka mea e hōʻike ai ua pilikia kona ola, a ʻaʻole mālie a kūpaʻa paha kona kūlana kālā, akā pono ʻo ia e hoʻomanawanui i hiki ke hoʻokō maikaʻi ʻia kēia kūlana.

• ʻAʻole maikaʻi ka hānai ʻana i ka pēpē ma hope o ka ʻoki ʻana i ka waiu, akā e hōʻike ana ia i nā hopohopo a me nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole i loaʻa iā ia i kēia wā o kona ola.
• ʻO kāna hānai ʻana i kahi kāne nui e hōʻike ana i ka hopohopo a me ka ʻehaʻeha i loaʻa iā ia a kaumaha loa ʻo ia iā ia.
• He hōʻailona wale nō ka ʻike no kona kokoke ʻana i ka hāpai ʻana a me kona hauʻoli i kēia nūhou.
• Inā ʻo ia e hoʻopiʻi ana i ka ʻeha o kona kino, a ʻike ʻo ia i kēia moeʻuhane ma ia mea, ke hoʻōla nei ʻo ia a hala i kēia luhi.
• ʻIke pū mākou he hōʻike ka hihiʻo e loaʻa iā ia nā keiki maikaʻi e hauʻoli ai i kona ola a pau.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki kāne no ka wahine male iā Ibn Sirin

• Ua wehewehe ʻo Imam Ibn Sirin iā mākou e pili ana ka hihiʻo i ka palena o ke kūʻokoʻa o nā wahine a ʻaʻole lākou e ʻoluʻolu i ko lākou ola, ʻoiai lākou e kaumaha a pōʻino i kēia mau lā.
• ʻO ka hihiʻo kekahi hōʻike o kekahi pilikia i loaʻa iā ia ma muli o ka nui o nā kuleana luhi.
• Inā ʻaʻohe hauʻoli a pōʻino ke keiki, hōʻike kēia e hele ana ʻo ia i kekahi mau pilikia a me nā hopohopo ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke lanakila ma luna ona.
• ʻO kāna uē ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka hopohopo i nā keiki me ka hiki ʻole ke hoʻomau i kona ola kula e like me kāna i hoʻolālā ai, a i ʻole he hōʻailona ia o ka pili ʻana i ke kanaka i loaʻa nā keiki mai kahi male mua.
• ʻO ka nui o ka waiu e puka mai ana mai loko mai o kona umauma he hōʻike ia e noho nei ʻo ia i kahi kūlana hoʻokele waiwai ʻaʻole i ʻike mua ʻia, ʻoiai e loaʻa ana iā ia ke kālepa pono a me nā papahana e hoʻonui piha ai i kāna mau waiwai.
• ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka nui o ka waiū ʻaʻole ia e hōʻike i ka hewa, akā e hōʻike ana i ka piʻi nui ʻana o ke ola e hiki ai iā ia ke hoʻokō i nā mea āpau āna i moemoeā ai.
• He hōʻailona paha ia e loaʻa ana iā ia kahi keikikāne, ʻoiai inā makemake mau a noʻonoʻo ʻo ia iā ia.
• ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana me ka hauʻoli ʻo ia ka hōʻoia ʻana o ka lohe ʻana i ka nūhou hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli, a na ke Akua (swt) e hoʻohanohano iā ia i kona ola me nā mea maikaʻi loa.
• Akā inā kaumaha kona helehelena a ʻaʻole hauʻoli ʻo ia, a laila alakaʻi kēia i ka hele ʻana i kekahi mau hanana maikaʻi ʻole e hoʻopilikia iā ia i kēia wā.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki kāne no ka wahine hāpai?

• ʻIke mākou he moeʻuhane mau ka wahine hāpai i nā keiki i kēia wā, no kona manaʻo mau iā lākou, no laila ke ʻike nei mākou he nui nā manaʻo o ka ʻike ʻana iā ia. Iloko o keia manawa, no ka mea, e ola ana oia i kona ola me ka hauoli a me ka maikai, no ka mea, e wehe ana kona Haku i na puka ola nona.
• ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka ulu ʻana o kona ʻōpū i mua ona, he hōʻike ia o kona manaʻo makaʻu ma muli o ke kuleana nui e kau ʻia ma luna o kona mau poʻohiwi.
• Inā ʻike ʻo ia e hānau ana ʻo ia, akā ma hope o ka manawa lōʻihi ma mua o nā mahina ʻeiwa maʻamau, e hōʻike ana kēia ua pilikia ʻo ia i kona ola, a ʻaʻole ʻo ia i palekana me kāna kāne a makemake ʻo ia e hoʻopaʻa hou iā ia.
• Ke ʻike ʻo ia e haʻalele ʻo ia i kāna pēpē a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hānai iā ia, alakaʻi kēia i ka hana ʻole ʻana a i ʻole ka lilo ʻana o kekahi kālā, a ʻaʻohe pili o ka hihiʻo i ka pēpē a ʻaʻole ia e hōʻike i kahi pōʻino i kāna keiki. olakino.

ʻO nā wehewehe koʻikoʻi o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi pēpē kāne hānai hānai i ka moeʻuhane

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke keiki kāne e hōʻole i ka hānai ʻana i ka wahine mare?

• Ua ʻike ʻia aia kekahi mau keiki e hōʻole i ka hānai ʻana i ka umauma i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ko lākou hānau ʻana no nā kumu he nui, akā inā hoʻomau ke kūlana, lilo kēia i mea hopohopo a pono ke kuhikuhi koke ʻia ke kauka, a no ia mea, ʻike mākou i ka ʻike ʻana iā ia i loko. ʻO ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana he pilikia ko ka wahine hānau keiki, a ma ʻaneʻi ʻo ia e ʻimi nei i nā hopena he nui no ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi keiki.
• No ka mea, ina e hoole oia iaia aole nae he pilikia iki, alaila, he hihio maikai keia nona e hauoli ai oia me ka oluolu o ka noho ana me kona ohana a ke Akua i hoopomaikai mai ai iaia me ka hoonele ole ia ia i na keikikane a i ole. kaikamahine.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki kāne ʻē aʻe kaʻu keiki no ka wahine male

• Hōʻike ka moeʻuhane aia kekahi mau pilikia pōʻino i loko o kona ola, no laila pono ʻo ia i kāna mau hoaaloha e kū pū me ia, a ʻo ia ka mea e hōʻoluʻolu ai iā ia a hiki iā ia ke hele i loko o kāna mau pilikia.
• ʻO ka hauʻoli o kahi keiki ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike iā ia e hoʻopau i nā kūlana maikaʻi ʻole a pau āna e noho ai, a e loaʻa iā ia ke ola āna i moemoeā ai i loko o kahi manawa pōkole.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki kāne no ka wahine male ʻole me ka waiū?

• ʻAʻohe mea kānalua he mea nui ka waiū no ke pēpē no ka mea ʻo ia ke kumu o kāna meaʻai e ulu pono ai, akā inā he liʻiliʻi ka waiū a ʻaʻohe waiu e hānai ai iā ia, a laila e lawe ka hihiʻo i kahi hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole. , no ka mea e alakaʻi ana i nā kūlana kālā a me ka ʻohana ʻilihune me ia, ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke noho pū i waena o kona ʻohana me ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka palekana.
• Hoʻopau ʻo ia i ka hōʻaiʻē kālā mai kekahi o ka poʻe e puni ana iā ia, a ʻo ia ke kumu o kona kaumaha a me ka hopohopo no kona ola kālā ʻilihune.
• A i ʻole he hōʻailona paha ia o ka hana ʻino ma waena o kāna kāne, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia i manaʻo i kahi kūpaʻa e hauʻoli ai ʻo ia me ia.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki kāne ʻōpio no ka wahine male

• ʻAʻohe mea kānalua he mea koʻikoʻi a kūlohelohe ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki liʻiliʻi, akā inā ʻike ka wahine i ka hānai ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike kēia i kona hiki ʻole ke hoʻokō i nā mea a pau āna i makemake ai ma muli o ke kapu āna i manaʻo ai i kēia wā, ʻoiai. na na keiki e paa ka makuahine ma ka hale, aole hiki ia ia ke haalele.
• ʻO ka nui o ka waiū e hōʻike ana i ka piʻi ʻana o kona ola, ʻoiai ka liʻiliʻi a i ʻole ka waiū e pili ana i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia e kū nei i kona ola a pōʻino iā ia i kēia wā.
• Ina ua hauoli ke keiki ma ka moeuhane, alaila, he nuhou maikai keia nona, no ka mea, ua lohe oia i ka lono i hoopau ia ia i ke kaumaha a me ka hopohopo, aka, ina ua kaumaha, alaila, e hoike ana keia i ka ikaika o kona kaumaha a me kona pilikia i keia mau la.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki no ka wahine mare?

• Hōʻike ka hihiʻo e hoʻokō ʻo ia i nā mea a pau āna i makemake ai i loko o kona ola, ʻoiai he hōʻike ia o ka hauʻoli, hauʻoli, a me ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā makemake, ʻoiai inā e hoʻopiʻi kēia wahine i ka hopohopo a i ʻole ka luhi, no laila ʻike mākou he hōʻailona maikaʻi ka hihiʻo. nona, e hoʻohiki ana i kona hele ʻana i kēia mau pilikia a pau.
• He hōʻike hoʻi ia no ka puka ʻana i waho o nā hopohopo a me nā kaumaha a pau e hoʻomalu nei iā ia i loko o kona ola a maopopo ka luhi.

Ka wehewehe o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i nā māhoe hānai

• Ina he kaikamahine hookahi ka mea au e ike nei, e hoike mai ana keia i kona hele ana iloko o na pilikia lehulehu, no ka mea, he nui na pilikia i hiki ole iaia ke hoomanawanui ma ke ola ana, he lono maikai keia nana e pakele ai mai kela poe me ka manao ino. akā, ke ʻike nei mākou ua kaumaha iki ʻo ia no kēia poʻe e ʻimi nei e hoʻopōʻino iā ia.
• No ka wahine mare, he hōʻike maopopo ia o kona hauʻoli ʻana, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hānau no ka manawa lōʻihi.
• Ke alakaʻi nei ka hihiʻo i nā pilikia a me nā hopohopo no ka manawa lōʻihi, ʻoiai inā he mau keiki nā māhoe, ma ʻaneʻi, hōʻike ka hihiʻo i kekahi mau pilikia i loko o ke ola o ka mea moeʻuhane, a hiki ke mau no kekahi manawa.

• Akā inā he wahine lākou, he hōʻike kēia o ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli e hoʻomaikaʻi a maikaʻi ai kona ola ma mua.
• He hōʻoluʻolu nui nā māhoe wahine mai ka Haku o nā Honua, a hōʻike i kahi ala i waho o nā hopohopo a me ke kaumaha.
• ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka wahine hāpai ma ka moeʻuhane, a he kāne nā māhoe, he hōʻike ia o ka hānau ʻana o ka wahine, akā inā he wahine hānai ʻo ia ma ka moeʻuhane, ua hānau ʻo ia i keiki kāne.
• Ua ʻike nō hoʻi mākou ʻo kāna hānai ʻana i nā kāne he hōʻike ia o kona ʻehaʻeha i ka wā hānau keiki, ʻoiai ʻo nā wahine he lono maikaʻi iā ia ke lanakila i ka ʻeha i ka wā hānau.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki kāne no ka wahine hemo?

• ʻO kēia moeʻuhane ʻaʻole ia he nūhou maikaʻi no ka wahine i hemo, ʻoiai he hōʻailona maopopo ia e hele ana ʻo ia i nā pilikia ma o ka hānai ʻana i kāna mau keiki, ʻoiai ua lilo ʻo ia iā ia iho a ʻaʻole kōkua ke kāne iā ia i ka hoʻonaʻauao ma hope o ka kaʻawale ʻana.
• A i ʻole e ʻōlelo paha ʻo ia ʻaʻole e loaʻa iā ia kahi kuleana iā ia, akā e kaʻawale ʻo ia mai kāna mau keiki no kekahi manawa ma muli o nā pilikia i ulu ʻia ma waena o kāna kāne a me kāna kāne.
• Akā inā hānai ʻo ia iā ia i ka wā hauʻoli, hōʻike kēia i kona makemake e ʻimi i ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli.

Aia ka pauku ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane ma kahi pūnaewele ʻAigupita Mai Google mai, nui nā wehewehe a me nā nīnau mai ka poʻe hahai.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i ka umauma o ka wahine ma ka moeʻuhane

• Aia keia hihio ma ke ano o ka umauma, ina he maikai a he ino paha kona helehelena, ina he maikai, he mea ia e hoike mai ana i ka noho hauoli ana a me ka nui o ka maikai no ka mea moeuhane ma na mea a pau o kona ola ana, aka, ina aole maikai kona kino, alaila. alakaʻi kēia i nā pilikia a hiki ʻole i ka maikaʻi āna i ʻimi ai mai ia manawa mai.

ʻO ka weheweheʻana i kaʻikeʻana i ka hikiʻole ke hānai i ka umauma ma ka moeʻuhane

• Hiki i ka wahine ke hele i loko o kekahi mau pilikia e hiki ʻole ai iā ia ke hānai i kāna keiki, no laila ke hōʻike nei ka hihiʻo e noho ana ʻo ia i loko o ka nui o ke kuleana e hoʻokaumaha iā ia a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻopau maikaʻi ʻia, no laila ke hoʻomau nei ʻo ia i ke kaumaha. i kekahi manawa, a eia oia e pule aku ai i kona Haku, aia oia ma kona aoao a kokua iaia e lanakila i keia mau pilikia e luhi ana i kona ola.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi no ka wahine mare iā Ibn Shaheen?

• Ua wehewehe ʻo Ibn Shaheen iā mākou, ʻo kēia ʻike ʻana kekahi o nā ʻōlelo maikaʻi i ke ola o ka wahine, ʻoiai he uku ia nona no kēlā me kēia kaumaha i loko o kona ola, a e ola ʻo ia i kona ola e like me kāna makemake, a inā manaʻo ʻo ia. kekahi kaumaha no ka loaa ole ana o na keiki, alaila, e hauoli koke ana oia i keia lono hauoli.
• Hōʻike ka moeʻuhane e hoʻohanohano ke Akua iā ia me ka nui o ka meaʻai a me ka maikaʻi pau ʻole, kahi e hauʻoli nui ai ʻo ia.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki no ke kāne ma ka moeʻuhane

• Hōʻike ka hihiʻo e hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻia ʻo ia me ka nui o ke kālā i loko o kona ola, ʻaʻole ia e pono i kekahi, ʻoiai ʻo kona kokoke loa.
• Pela no hoi, ua hai ia mai ka olelo maikai iaia, e ola ana oia me ka olioli a me ka olioli i kona ola ana, a e loaa iaia ke ola loihi (ke makemake ke Akua) me ka loaa ole o ka poino a me ka pilikia, ina e loaa ia ia ka pilikia a me ke kaumaha, e pakele no ia. o lakou koke, a maikai kona ola kino.
• Inā loaʻa i ke kanaka nā pilikia olakino a i ʻole kekahi pōʻino i loko o kona kino, e hōʻike ana kēia e pakele ʻo ia i kēia mau pilikia luhi iā ia i ke ala o kona ola ʻana, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e ʻike hou i kahi pōʻino.
• Inā loaʻa iā ia nā manaʻo papahana kūikawā a makemake ʻo ia e hoʻokō iā lākou, a ʻike ʻo ia i kēia moeʻuhane, hōʻike kēia e kūleʻa ʻo ia iā lākou a lanakila i nā hopena āpau i kona ola me ka ʻole o ka pōʻino.

Ua moeʻuhane au e hānai ana au i kahi keiki i koʻu wā kaʻawale, he aha ke ʻano o ka moe? 

• Ke hopohopo nui nei ka wahine hoʻokahi i kona ʻike ʻana i kēia moeʻuhane, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia i male e ʻike i kāna hānai ʻana i kahi keiki ʻōpio, akā ʻo kāna ʻike ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana ua kokoke ʻo ia e male i kēia wā.
• ʻO ka hihiʻo kekahi he hōʻailona o kāna ʻano hanohano me ka poʻe a pau e pili ana iā ia, ʻoiai ʻo ia e ʻimi nei e hoʻokokoke i kona ʻohana a me kona ʻohana a ʻaʻole makemake e neʻe aku mai o lākou aku a ʻoki ʻole i kona pilina me lākou, a ʻo ia ka hopena o kāna. ka lokomaikaʻi nui a me ka hana maikaʻi i waena o nā mea a pau.
• E lilo ana ka hihio i mea hoʻohiki ʻole inā hāʻule ka waiū mai loko mai o ia mea a hiki ʻole iā ia ke hoʻokomo i loko o ke kīʻaha, a laila hōʻike kāna moeʻuhane e hele ana ʻo ia i nā hopohopo a me nā pilikia e hōʻeha nui iā ia.
• A inā e hānai ʻo ia i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi ma kāna moeʻuhane, ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā ia kahi waiu e hānai ai iā ia, a laila e alakaʻi ana ia i ke kaumaha a me ka ʻehaʻeha ʻaʻole e pau ke ʻole ke hoʻokokoke aku i ke Akua Mana Loa.
• A inā ʻike ʻoe i ka nui o ka waiū i loko o kona umauma, a laila he hōʻike maopopo kēia o ka maikaʻi nui āna i hauʻoli ai i kona ola a me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ikaika a ka Haku o nā Honua i hoʻohanohano iā ia.
• I ka wa e hanai ai oia i ke kane ma ka moeuhane, aole i manaoia ka hihio nona, aka, he hoailona pono ole ia no keia kanaka, no ka mea, aole e hiki iaia ke hoomau i kona ola e like me kana i makemake ai, aka, e hoikeia ana no ia. i na pilikia e keakea ana i kona holomua.
• ʻO ka hānai ʻana i ka wahine ma ka moeʻuhane he kālā maikaʻi ʻole a pau ʻole. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i nā kaikamahine i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i kona hauʻoli, holomua, a me kahi ala i waho o nā pilikia a i ʻole ka pilikia e hāʻule ai ʻo ia i ka wā o kāna hana a i ʻole ke ola ʻohana.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki no ka poʻe ʻōpio ma ka moeʻuhane?

Ke hoike mai nei keia hihio i ka hopohopo ke ike ia, aka, ua ike kakou he maikai kona manao, ina e ike ke kanaka opio, he mea ia e pili loa ana i kona Haku, a ua kaawale oia i na hewa a pau e loaa ia ia i keia wa, nolaila, Ke mihi nei ke Akua i kona mau hewa a pau, a ke ike nei no hoi kakou he hoike ia no kona hookuu ana mai i kona mau pilikia a me kona mau pilikia, aole e pau, aole e haule hou oia iloko o kekahi pilikia, aka, e hooko no ia i kona makemake e like me kona makemake mamua. .

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i ke keiki kāne mai kona makuahine ma ka moeʻuhane?

ʻO ka hihiʻo he hōʻailona ia o ka pono e hoʻokokoke aku i kekahi poʻe i aloha iā ia. Aia ka manaʻo weliweli o ka mehameha a me ka makemake nui e hoʻokō i ka palekana a me ke aloha. he hōʻailona ia o ka piʻi nui ʻana o kāna kālā i kēia wā.

He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kahi malihini ma ka moeʻuhane?

ʻAʻole hiki ke hana maoli kēia, no laila ke ʻike nei mākou ʻo ka ʻike ʻana iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane he ʻōlelo aʻo maopopo ia no ka wahine e hana me ka makaʻala i nā mea a pau e pili ana iā ia, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike iā lākou. manawa. Ina aole oia e akahele loa, e lilo ana ka nui o kana mau dala me ka hiki ole, I kona hoi hou ana mai.